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Sex is clearly the ends to you. Any means available is justifiable to meet the ends, right?
I LOVE that you brought that up. Sex is not the "ends" for me for women that I like and want to has a serious relationships with, that was just for bootycalls or potential FWB's(I mean the first one). And i believe i pointed that Out in that specific thread and others. I've never lied to or cheated on a woman either.
As for the second one, what onihc said was the truth. And I agreed guys can't "cut" women off from sex like girls can do guys. We don't have that type of power
I live in a horrible area where dating is probably the last thing you should be thinking about, as most people are either elderly, married, or are divorced and hate men, or want something that doesn't exist.
I do not make up outrageous claims. I never have.
"Finding a date" I quit on that notion a long time ago. "attracting a woman" I've given up on that notion too. I'm basically a hermit at this point, lol.
Frog - you are one of the best posters here! We all love you!
To the OP - I think the reason that you are happily married is because you get all this. I'm happily married, too. A lot of the posters on here are. However, many of the unhappy posters would rather fight with us, laugh at us, curse at us, etc. - then actually think that there might be a bit of truth to what we have to say. Oh well.
Frog - you are one of the best posters here! We all love you!
To the OP - I think the reason that you are happily married is because you get all this. I'm happily married, too. A lot of the posters on here are. However, many of the unhappy posters would rather fight with us, laugh at us, curse at us, etc. - then actually think that there might be a bit of truth to what we have to say. Oh well.
Best posters? I don't know about that. I mainly post random stuff that comes out of left field. I do have moments of good posting.
I LOVE that you brought that up. Sex is not the "ends" for me for women that I like and want to has a serious relationships with, that was just for bootycalls or potential FWB's(I mean the first one). And i believe i pointed that Out in that specific thread and others. I've never lied to or cheated on a woman either.
You can't say this, and then being consistent, say this:
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Originally Posted by BradPiff
As for the second one, what onihc said was the truth. And I agreed guys can't "cut" women off from sex like girls can do guys. We don't have that type of power
What's wrong with that?
What you are implying is that sex can be used as a weapon. I agree, it can be, but it is only effective against someone to whom sex is the ends. But when sex is a part of a healthy relationship in which both partners hold each other in a place of mutual respect, sex is not the ends, and withholding is uncommon. I find it hard to believe that this is what you desire when you are frequently on the same side of many discussion as are some of the others whom I quoted.
So do you want me to IMO after every post? My "truth" is what I've experienced and observed in my life and I use that to base my philosophies On not only relationships But life in general, and I express that here.
That's all this is
Yeah, actually, if only so that new people don't get the wrong impression.
But you'll likely never make any progress on a relationship with a woman until you make progress with yourself. It's tough to look inward and make the adjustments that you need to make. Only real men are willing to do it.
First and foremost, thanks for the photo. It speaks volumes. So do your locations: Monterey and various VA locations. Military, the language institute, something like that? Graduate business education. Check. Religion? Are you Mormon? This post is typical of a judgmental person with kids (giving rise to the term "breeder"), caters to the ladies on here who love the male-bashing, and is basically says "I've got game" when you expressly say you don't. Don't come across like you're clueless, "got game" can be deduced via its context.
I would have NO problem posting my picture on here, but love the liberty of saying what I want. Plus, as huck wisely said, this forum is a handy-dandy "window to the world."
I'm single. I didn't pass through the "window" on time. I wanted to do what I wanted to do, in terms of schooling, travel, and relocating. I didn't like who was "left over" after this trek. It's people such as yourself with condescending attitudes toward the singles on here, and probably elsewhere, that are using a post like this to prop yourself up. (How do you view the singles you work with?) Selecting various quotes by posters and making a compendium of them to make your point almost makes you look catty, like you're putting these people behind the fence at the zoo for inspection. So, what's your agenda?
You've evidently gotten some strokes. One of the posters, presumably female, said something like "rep for life" or "rep in perpetuity."
So, you're military, you know football, you probably grunt, and you're probably religious and conservative. Wow, YOU sound packaged.
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