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Old 08-14-2012, 09:21 AM
 
Location: NC
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Boggle... there are plenty of everyday functioning successful people that you would classify as "Crazy girls"...

Like the girl with too many cats
The girl with OCD who wipes down everything
The girl who keeps her shoe collection in sealed plastic bags
etc...

I think your thread is referred to guys going to mental hospitals and banging out women with diminished mental capacities or serious impairments? I haven't heard that this is common. Although there is a scene in the Kill Bill Series involving this.

So no... not common.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:36 AM
 
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There have been several threads and posts on this board about how "crazy" girls are more desirable sex partners (although I have never seen any convincing explanation as to what they do that is demonstrably different than a mentally healthy woman with a decent sex drive).

That being said, I wonder how common it is for men to pursue women they understand in advance to be mentally or emotionally unstable for purely sexual purposes. Or men to stay in relationships with these women when there is no interest on his part other than sex.

Is this an OK thing to do, or is it a form of exploitation of psychologically impaired people?

Debate among yourselves.
Yeah, when people say that crazy women are great in bed, they dont have people with actual mental illness in mind. I cant believe you would really think that anyone would think thats ok, in any scenario, shape or form. You even typing that up, makes me question your sanity a little.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:41 AM
 
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There have been several threads and posts on this board about how "crazy" girls are more desirable sex partners (although I have never seen any convincing explanation as to what they do that is demonstrably different than a mentally healthy woman with a decent sex drive).

That being said, I wonder how common it is for men to pursue women they understand in advance to be mentally or emotionally unstable for purely sexual purposes. Or men to stay in relationships with these women when there is no interest on his part other than sex.

Is this an OK thing to do, or is it a form of exploitation of psychologically impaired people?

Debate among yourselves.
Unfortunately, there are men in this world who confuse themselves with Buckcherry.

I put them on par with men who know dang well a woman is drunk and wouldn't go near them with a 10-foot-pole were she sober, who then try to get the woman in bed: Opportunists who can't get healthy women, so they have to prey on those who are incapacitated in some way.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:45 AM
 
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Is this an OK thing to do, or is it a form of exploitation of psychologically impaired people?
No it bloody well isn't! The person instigating the sex is a predator and the other a victim. It's a low thing to do..... sooooooo low.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:46 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I've not heard of this but it wouldn't surprise me if a particular desperate and sick minority would 'exploit' this as you say. Where are these threads you are speaking about?
There was a "crazy girls" thread, in which guys said that they had the best sex with gf's who had borderline mental health issues, or they knew guys who were in relationships like that, and stayed in them because the "benefits" were worth it.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:51 AM
 
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THis thread is straight up male bashing, hope moderators close it soon. You people are off your rocker.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:52 AM
 
Location: NC
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There was a "crazy girls" thread, in which guys said that they had the best sex with gf's who had borderline mental health issues, or they knew guys who were in relationships like that, and stayed in them because the "benefits" were worth it.
Yes but this thread seems to refer to...

I think your thread is referred to guys going to mental hospitals and banging out women with diminished mental capacities or serious impairments? I haven't heard that this is common. Although there is a scene in the Kill Bill Series involving this.
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Old 08-14-2012, 10:07 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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There was a "crazy girls" thread, in which guys said that they had the best sex with gf's who had borderline mental health issues, or they knew guys who were in relationships like that, and stayed in them because the "benefits" were worth it.
That is a bit different to searching how girls with serious mental health issues because they're vulnerable for sex.

I have mental health issues. I wouldn't think a girl who was interested in me DESPITE my issues was taking advantage of me.
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Old 08-14-2012, 10:23 AM
 
Location: NYC
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That is a bit different to searching how girls with serious mental health issues because they're vulnerable for sex.

I have mental health issues. I wouldn't think a girl who was interested in me DESPITE my issues was taking advantage of me.
there was a period of about ten months during which i took zoloft. i also had a GF at the time

i never realized that i had been ruthlessly exploited for my hot wang

probably i should find a support group
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Old 08-14-2012, 10:33 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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there was a period of about ten months during which i took zoloft. i also had a GF at the time

i never realized that i had been ruthlessly exploited for my hot wang

probably i should find a support group
Poor you, fortunately I'm too anxious to even leave the house, lest I be predated upon by a hot mama!
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