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Old 08-17-2012, 07:26 AM
 
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wow all these 'drama' for someone you have not even met yet?! LOL. move on. go msg another guy who favorited you. i have been there. developed emotions for someone i have not even met yet just coz the connection via phone/texting makes me feel sooo good it's addicting. but when we met? no connection at all.

im telling you, you are just wasting your time and emotions. i prefer to meet in person right away because i dont wanna waste my time like that ever again. i suggest u do the same.
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:43 AM
 
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Wait, so you never even met the guy?
I don't think she said if she actually met the guy or not. If she hasn't met him, she is definitely a future stalker x100. Thats what I would think. I'm betting the guy is thinking even if he has sex with her and dumps her its not worth it because she will hit him up 10x/day to get in contact with him.

My advice, find a new hobby and don't let men validate you or your self-esteem.
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:52 AM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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I feel so guilty and embarrassed for crossing the line with you two nights ago if it's anything I'm really sorry and I still feel ashamed of myself.
I have absolutely no hope for the "texting" generation.
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:53 AM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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How so?
He wants sex! He didn't get it right away so he is distancing himself from you. Nothing more needs to be said. At 24 you should already know this.
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Old 08-17-2012, 08:57 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Ohhhhhh...you haven't met?? I thought you'd met and been on a few dates. That changes everything! How can you be so obsessed to hear from someone you've never met?
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Old 08-17-2012, 09:03 AM
 
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You probably should not text him back immediately if he texts you. I agree with BioMechanical...he could just be busy. But regardless of whether or not this guy texts you, try to remember that you deserve to be treated well and sought after...let him do some of the chasing.
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Old 08-17-2012, 09:08 AM
 
Location: The Great State of Arkansas
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Wow - what a misleading first post - "the dating guy", not "the dating SITE guy that I've never met but want to take up every waking minute of my life based on what he said on a site (which way too often isn't true anyway)".

If you have never been out with this guy, I still hold with my original advice. Get busy, too busy to think about him. Back off. Like about 2 football field lengths.

Can't be said any other way - leave the guy alone. Move on. I understand men outnumber women on those sites - surely there is someone else to obsess about.
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Old 08-17-2012, 09:13 AM
 
Location: NYC
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he's just not that into you
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Old 08-17-2012, 09:31 AM
 
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This is why the internet, social networking sites, smart phones, and text messaging have completely ruined the youth and society as a whole. People are way too attached to their digital media these days. They are out of touch with reality. Majority of the population do not have any real hobbies aside from Facebook. All they do is sit on their ass and make digital friends and play games with each other. People forgot how to be genuine. They forgot how to go out and actually meet people in real life.

The OP and the "boy" (definitely no man) in question are both a great example of this.
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Old 08-17-2012, 09:37 AM
 
Location: NYC
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This is why the internet, social networking sites, smart phones, and text messaging have completely ruined the youth and society as a whole. People are way too attached to their digital media these days. They are out of touch with reality. Majority of the population do not have any real hobbies aside from Facebook. All they do is sit on their ass and make digital friends and play games with each other. People forgot how to be genuine. They forgot how to go out and actually meet people in real life.

The OP and the "boy" (definitely no man) in question are both a great example of this.
so do you often log onto online forums to complain about online communication?
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