Do Nice Guys finish Last or First? (man, love, child support)
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A guy who calls himself a Nice Guy, isn't really a Nice Guy, but a weak and timid person who lacks either the self-confidence or the fundamental sangfroid to grow a backbone. The self-termed Nice Guy is dateless not because women want Bad Boys, but because they dress like they're 65 before their time, don't take care of themselves, don't assert themselves, and treat women as if they were Ming vases.
That's why. So quick calling yourself a Nice Guy. It's nothing more than a lame rationalization. Man up. Flip through an issue of GQ to learn how you should dress. Stop hiding in the corner at parties with no one to talk to but the ficus tree. And act as if you have a pair of balls already. None of these things prevent you from being nice, which women like. They prevent you from being a Nice Guy, which women despise.
A guy who calls himself a Nice Guy, isn't really a Nice Guy, but a weak and timid person who lacks either the self-confidence or the fundamental sangfroid to grow a backbone. The self-termed Nice Guy is dateless not because women want Bad Boys, but because they dress like they're 65 before their time, don't take care of themselves, don't assert themselves, and treat women as if they were Ming vases.
That's why. So quick calling yourself a Nice Guy. It's nothing more than a lame rationalization. Man up. Flip through an issue of GQ to learn how you should dress. Stop hiding in the corner at parties with no one to talk to but the ficus tree. And act as if you have a pair of balls already. None of these things prevent you from being nice, which women like. They prevent you from being a Nice Guy, which women despise.
cpg, the last paragraph sounds like the coaching Ryan Gosling gives Steve Carell in "Crazy, Stupid Love." No, no, I didn't pay for the movie ticket. It was one of the few movies I watched on my video monitor on a long-term flight.
cpg, the last paragraph sounds like the coaching Ryan Gosling gives Steve Carell in "Crazy, Stupid Love." No, no, I didn't pay for the movie ticket. It was one of the few movies I watched on my video monitor on a long-term flight.
It was a good movie, though.
(caught it on HBO & Redboxed it later for a friend)
I will say, nice guys finish first. I am a nice guy and I get girls. I also know other nice guys who do really well. Don't forget that not all players are jerks. There are many players who respect women and their own friends.
Don't believe me? Who are in stable relationships with great women? Who end up poor with a unstable woman. Sure, jerks/jocks can have sex earlier with hot girls, but those girls lacks values and will not remain hot. Many of these relationships lack substance and they will end up miserable together.
Yep. Nice guys finish last because every single woman on this earth is married to a hunky rich guy with a criminal past. Every one. All the women who aren't married are obese single Moms with 9 kids by 10 different guys and they also want those hunky rich guys who drive Mercedes and will finance their love for gold plated diaphragms and Cristal every night.
All the other poor nice guys are perfect in every single way, so why should they take a good, hard look at themselves and figure out why they're not getting the women they want? They deserve a supermodel nympho too, even if they have absolutely nothing to bring to the relationship! They're niiiiice!
Women are robots where you drop in niceness tokens and sex drops out! Those stupid women just don't realize it yet, I keep telling them that and calling them names for not giving me the time of day but they still won't sleep with me!
Yep. Nice guys finish last because every single woman on this earth is married to a hunky rich guy with a criminal past. Every one. All the women who aren't married are obese single Moms with 9 kids by 10 different guys and they also want those hunky rich guys who drive Mercedes and will finance their love for gold plated diaphragms and Cristal every night.
All the other poor nice guys are perfect in every single way, so why should they take a good, hard look at themselves and figure out why they're not getting the women they want? They deserve a supermodel nympho too, even if they have absolutely nothing to bring to the relationship! They're niiiiice!
Women are robots where you drop in niceness tokens and sex drops out! Those stupid women just don't realize it yet, I keep telling them that and calling them names for not giving me the time of day but they still won't sleep with me!
First off people with criminal pasts are rarely rich. They may be hunky, but that doesn't last and then they just have the criminal past which is generally unappealing esp. if the criminal past involves DUIs and they are not allowed to drive.
Secondly the obese single moms with 9 kids tend to take whomever, thus why there are 9 kids with ten different guys (all of whom just happen to have massive child support arrears). I am pretty sure even nice guys with no otherwise discernible standards will not touch that hot mess with a 20 foot poll.
As to the "rich guys" they are most likely in debt up to their eyeballs and living off of home equity loans to create the illusion of the perfect life, this I could see causing some unwarranted frustration.
As to nice guys I think it is not so much about deserving a super model as it is about them scratching their heads when the hear on the 11 o'clock news that a local man shot his girlfriend at their nearby apartment complex after a long history of abuse over the course of a 3 year relationship.
Yep. Nice guys finish last because every single woman on this earth is married to a hunky rich guy with a criminal past. Every one. All the women who aren't married are obese single Moms with 9 kids by 10 different guys and they also want those hunky rich guys who drive Mercedes and will finance their love for gold plated diaphragms and Cristal every night.
All the other poor nice guys are perfect in every single way, so why should they take a good, hard look at themselves and figure out why they're not getting the women they want? They deserve a supermodel nympho too, even if they have absolutely nothing to bring to the relationship! They're niiiiice!
Women are robots where you drop in niceness tokens and sex drops out! Those stupid women just don't realize it yet, I keep telling them that and calling them names for not giving me the time of day but they still won't sleep with me!
In general jerks become poorer than nice guys, hence your post do not make much sense.
Take a look at the mean jerks you knew in high school, and see where they are today. They are not doing that well.
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