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Old 08-15-2012, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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I personally don't think nice guys finish last OR first. I don't think that's really the issue. It's just that life sucks a lot of the time, unless you are one of the few lucky people who gets what you want. It does not really matter whether you are nice or not nice. If you are lucky, women adore you. If you are cursed, women ignore you. I don't think that being nice has much of an impact positively OR negatively on getting the ladies. It might get you some points with the Man Upstairs, but i don't think it has much to do with getting laid more often.

Life is just a roll of the dice. A small percentage of guys are blessed with the looks, money, and good game... and the rest of us are just Average Frustrated Chumps.

Anyway... hopefully that is a different perspective to a hotly debated topic.
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Old 08-15-2012, 01:37 PM
 
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i agree with ur theory that they dont finish first or last.. i think its very subjective and depends on the type of girl ur trying to attract or the what the type of guy a girl is looking for
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Old 08-15-2012, 01:40 PM
 
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This has been done to DEATH. But

Nice guys are in the friendzone with attractive women(and a large majority of women period) from the age of 14 to around 30-31.

If that's not finishing last, I don't know what is
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Old 08-15-2012, 01:43 PM
 
Location: Woodinville
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Why is it that people won't stop talking about "nice guys"
Official "nice guys rule" thread
Good news nice guys: 4 types of women that will date you
The whole Nice Guys Finish Last thing
Women want bad boys over nice guys. A bunch of bologna.

Need I paste more?
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Old 08-15-2012, 02:02 PM
 
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Thank you man. Please no more nice guy threads.
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Old 08-15-2012, 02:04 PM
 
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A small percentage of guys are blessed with the looks, money, and good game... and the rest of us are just Average Frustrated Chumps.
yeah, sorry about that
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Old 08-15-2012, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Portland OR
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Nice guys have to find a woman who recognizes their worth.
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Old 08-15-2012, 02:08 PM
 
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I like nice guys, just don't want one who will let me walk all over him. That tends to be the problem.
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Old 08-15-2012, 02:09 PM
 
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There is a little search engine at the very top. Search for "nice guys". Be ready for a 24 hour read. Please don't beat this horse anymore than it has already been beaten. If everyone has said the topic is dead, it's time to put the stick's away.
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Old 08-15-2012, 02:38 PM
 
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I personally don't think nice guys finish last OR first. I don't think that's really the issue. It's just that life sucks a lot of the time, unless you are one of the few lucky people who gets what you want. It does not really matter whether you are nice or not nice. If you are lucky, women adore you. If you are cursed, women ignore you. I don't think that being nice has much of an impact positively OR negatively on getting the ladies. It might get you some points with the Man Upstairs, but i don't think it has much to do with getting laid more often.

Life is just a roll of the dice. A small percentage of guys are blessed with the looks, money, and good game... and the rest of us are just Average Frustrated Chumps.

Anyway... hopefully that is a different perspective to a hotly debated topic.
It depends on the type of nice guy. A lot of nice guys and jerks are practically two sides of the same coin.

Assertive guys finish first. Passive guys will more likely than not finish last.

So yeah, I definitely agree with you.

Be nice, be a jerk, just go get it... if you want it.
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