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Evil is when you derive pleasure at the misfortune or harm of someone else.
In your case I have a mantra "People like this eventually do themselves in, they don't need your help."
Your desire and obsession to 'help' is cause for concern. You're PO'd - get over it. Look at how much time and energy you've already invested in 'harming' this person. Now, if you are seriously trying to stop a crime that's a whole other issue.
Evil is when you derive pleasure at the misfortune or harm of someone else.
In your case I have a mantra "People like this eventually do themselves in, they don't need your help."
Your desire and obsession to 'help' is cause for concern. You're PO'd - get over it. Look at how much time and energy you've already invested in 'harming' this person. Now, if you are seriously trying to stop a crime that's a whole other issue.
Some people need to learn that they can't go around talking behind people's back and ruining their reputation. This women could ruin his life if he let's this continue.
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Some people need to learn that they can't go around talking behind people's back and ruining their reputation. This women could ruin his life if he let's this continue.
I think the woman has it coming to her. I think the OP should drop the dime to speed up the process.
Some people need to learn that they can't go around talking behind people's back and ruining their reputation. This women could ruin his life if he let's this continue.
Then sue her for slander starting with a cease and desist letter. That would address his specific issues. What he wants to do is some underhanded satisfaction and leads me to believe his story may be overblown. Deal with your own issues directly if such is the case.
I'm curious, what line of work are you in and what is she saying about you to threaten your reputation at your job? Is it believable to outsiders? Most people can see right through the kind of behavior she is displaying so they may not be taking any of it seriously.
Seems like some cowardly person left me an anonymous rep.
oh please. this is all about his ego being bruised since she broke up with him. Please don't encourage his immature thinking. If what she was doing was so horrible he could just report her to his HR dept. Sticks and stones in other words, man up
I don't know about you but if you think it's perfectly acceptable for people to possibly ruin your career than that's fine but don't expect everyone else to just lie down and take it.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Seems like some cowardly person left me an anonymous rep.
oh please. this is all about his ego being bruised since she broke up with him. Please don't encourage his immature thinking. If what she was doing was so horrible he could just report her to his HR dept. Sticks and stones in other words, man up
I don't know about you but if you think it's perfectly acceptable for people to possibly ruin your career than that's fine but don't expect everyone else to just lie down and take it.
That rep is the exact chicken thing I expect from some here.
Then sue her for slander starting with a cease and desist letter. That would address his specific issues. What he wants to do is some underhanded satisfaction and leads me to believe his story may be overblown. Deal with your own issues directly if such is the case.
this, pretty much. you don't want to report her because you think it's awful that she's committing fraud, you want to report her to bring her life down.
You can be the bigger person and make her look like the obsessed, crazy woman... Or you can stoop to her level and become part of the game.
This is fine advice and I agree with it up to a point...but at the point scurrilous accusations become professionally damaging I'd send her ass back to land of wodka and bears. Just IMO...
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thing I expect from some here.
