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Old 09-23-2012, 10:29 PM
 
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Early stages I guess. I've gotten to know her for about 2 years but we haven't hung out outside of school. I mentioned in another thread about how she kissed me and started to open up and I took that as a sign of some sorts but I'm thinking the reality is that I like her and she's either using me or just views me as a friend.

I really need to figure out a way to get her to go out with me or at least hang out, then it would make more sense if I asked her out rather than just tell her how I feel. The only downside is that if she is creeps out, I just blew our friendship away.
Well, set up an event and tell her you are going there and one of several things will happen:

She makes an excuse and not show up, but doesn't offer another time.

She doesn't show up but does offer another time.

Or she does show up. In which that case you show that you are romantically interested in her by flirting and such.
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Old 09-24-2012, 02:56 PM
 
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The earlier the better, for me it was my Sophmore year of HS. The longer yor still scared of getting rejected the worst off you are
and the more you approach, the more you step out of your comfort zone, the more that your approach anxiety will go away?
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Old 09-24-2012, 03:37 PM
 
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and the more you approach, the more you step out of your comfort zone, the more that your approach anxiety will go away?
It goes away as soon as you realize it's not that bad.
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Old 09-24-2012, 07:35 PM
 
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Fear leads to failure.
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:54 AM
 
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can someone love you but not want o live together or be married or is this just another way of controlling the other person
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Old 12-22-2012, 09:58 AM
 
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can someone love you but not want o live together or be married or is this just another way of controlling the other person
Yes, they can still love you. Could it be used as a form of control? Certainly. But it depends on the person
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