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Well, First of all thank you for the reply and I'm sorry for my bad language as I using translator from Malay to English and long essay I wrote. But all is my true word. But anyway, we both still talk and we still working at the same company. Just the situation is not worst as describe. But I thought I can change her mind and wondering that I got the privilege to own them both. She is a financial independent as she is very hard working and she is my manager. But I really love her daughter so much and just thinking would be nice if we can be together. Because she and her daughter enable giving me the feeling of family that I always wanted. I love how hardworking and serious to her job while her 4 years old daughter( we celebrate birthday just 3 weeks ago)clever, cute and she loves me.
I just guessing her husband is having second family there. Because I know her husband only come back to her once a year and never really call or caring her. I know her husband dislike kids. I say this not because to criticize him from me but is from the office colleague and her old friend. I know I shouldn't chase a married woman especially non divorce yet. But still I choose to. I mean there is a lot of choices for me but non of them that I'm looking for. Same Like old time Those that I love most they got boyfriend or married. Am I doing this because of my compassion?
I know I'm might not a good christian as I in to this kind situation. So my act is nothing to do religion but Just I'm not perfect to god. Thank You
Last edited by 9tailsfox; 08-29-2012 at 08:48 PM..
Well, First of all thank you for the reply and I'm sorry for my bad language as I using translator from Malay to English and long essay I wrote. But all is my true word. But anyway, we both still talk and we still working at the same company. Just the situation is not worst as describe. But I thought I can change her mind and wondering that I got the privilege to own them both. She is a financial independent as she is very hard working and she is my manager. But I really love her daughter so much and just thinking would be nice if we can be together. Because she and her daughter enable giving me the feeling of family that I always wanted. I love how hardworking and serious to her job while her 4 years old daughter( we celebrate birthday just 3 weeks ago)clever, cute and she loves me.
I just guessing her husband is having second family there. Because I know her husband only come back to her once a year and never really call or caring her. I know her husband dislike kids. I say this not because to criticize him from me but is from the office colleague and her old friend. I know I shouldn't chase a married woman especially non divorce yet. But still I choose to. I mean there is a lot of choices for me but non of them that I'm looking for. Same Like old time Those that I love most they got boyfriend or married. Am I doing this because of my compassion?
I know I'm might not a good christian as I in to this kind situation. So my act is nothing to do religion but Just I'm not perfect to god. Thank You
Please tell me this is a loss in translation and that you aren't hoping to "own" her.
She gave you every indication that she doesn't want you. Move on.
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If you have nothing helpful to post then move along.
Be civil, no personal attacks, flaming, or insults. We may attack ideas (politely) but we do not attack the speaker of the idea. Be careful with your words, there is a point where being direct crosses a line into blunt, in-your-face hostility. Please, report bad posts instead of engaging in flame wars on the boards. Insulting another member or a moderator will not be tolerated anywhere on this website. This includes Direct Messages and Reputation Comments.
If you have nothing helpful to post then move along.
This.
I'm SURE the OP means "own her heart" by using that word. I don't think he means "own", just a bad translation (especially since he said he uses google translate).
Also, in his follow-up post, it comes to light that she is likely separated, and possibly in the process of divorce. I say this just to cut the OP some slack. I still think it's a horrible idea. (Not at workplace, and mostly, no means no!), but I have to agree, especially after the follow-up post that others have been a bit judgemental.
OP, like others HAVE said, it's not a good idea, and mostly, you need to respect her wishes. Here in America, there are VERY strong rules, and you are opening yourself up to getting fired from work, and to a lawsuit (maybe not the case in Malaysia, but certainly so here!!!!!).
Best advice is to move on. I know it's hard, but move on.
The minute I heard you mention her astrological side, I knew you were out of your depth.
No. Simply no. Until she's divorced, just cut it out.
Yup.
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