I'm not gay but I'm attracted to another woman... (straight, social, different)
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There was a girl in high school who I had a crush on but I wasn't friends with her and just admired her from afar. She had a cute face, a short haircut, wasn't particularly curvy or feminine so it wasn't hard for me to be attracted to her. It wasn't like a sexual lust but I just thought she was adorable. I was very shy and never had any boyfriends in high school, but I did have crushes on boys and my crush on this girl wasn't as strong.
Anyway, I don't really think this makes me gay/bi because we're just talking about one girl here compared to hundreds of men that I've been attracted to. I kind of don't think it counts, but I don't know...
What do you think? Should I try being a lesbian for a few months to make sure that I'm not?
The fact you've found one woman in your whole life who you're attracted to doesn't mean you're gay or even bi, necessarily. Lots of people, male and female, have the odd same-sex attraction. They talk about it much, but it happens.
I have been in love with a marrie women who happen to be way older then me.I can't stop thinking about her.its been a year & half.since I've been feeling that way about her.and I couldn't hold it any longer.so I tell her how I felt about her.and she said said lets put all of this behind us.and move on as friends. That just break my heart. And I think she is into me to.she just don't wanna admit it.I don't know wat to do.help.oh and I've never been with a woman before. N I'm still into men
I have been in love with a marrie women who happen to be way older then me.I can't stop thinking about her.its been a year & half.since I've been feeling that way about her.and I couldn't hold it any longer.so I tell her how I felt about her.and she said said lets put all of this behind us.and move on as friends. That just break my heart. And I think she is into me to.she just don't wanna admit it.I don't know wat to do.help.oh and I've never been with a woman before. N I'm still into men
Don't mess with married people. Aim for somebody single next time.
You perhaps are bisexual or bi curious. Don't label yourself if you feel uncomfortable. Sexual experiments especially when you are single harms no one. So why not give this a try?
I have been approached by MANY lesbians and bi. Beautiful women turn me off, that is how I know I am straight as an arrow.
Is it possible you just liked this one girl and that's it? I had a coworker like that once, really nice person. I would've dated her if I had the chance. It hasn't happened since.
Do you live in a small-ish town? Because I live in a moderately-sized city and I meet lesbians All. The. Time. Even when I'm just out and about.
Also, why no bisexual women?
Gays and straights both have a lot of misconceptions about bisexual women.
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