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Its strange you'd have to admit... when he WAS the one who would try to initiate sex. And he'd use to say I want to have sex with you every day... now he doesn't remember saying that... hmm
According to ALOT of ladies on CD-its because he is watching too much porn and spanking his monkey while you aint looking. So it just follows that you can no longer allow computers in your home if you want to get laid more often.
Does the why really matter that much? You're not married. Bottom line are you satisfied with once per week? If the answer is no and this is his new norm then the relationship is already doomed. The first six months when he wanted you everyday was probably the infatuation stage. Now that the newness has worn off I think you're seeing his true sex drive. For some people once a week would be fine and some would feel deprived. It is what it is and you can't force someone to feel desire. The more sexually aggressive and frustrated you become the more he will take sex for granted and drag his feet about it because it becomes a control issue after a while. Deal with his new norm...drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why he don't want you like you want him/beg for sex.....or leave.
It always amazes me there are so many people on CD who can type but not read.
Where the heck did I say anything about a vacation????
I am talking about how answers to the very same problem are the opposite depending if the author is a female or a male. I can guarantee answers would be different if the author was a man. That’s all I am saying. Why not respect that this guy simply changed? Haven't found a post where it says he stopped loving her. Could be for the same reasons married women stop having sex and have women telling men to respect their woman’s decision to stop having sex, to romance her, to buy her stuff, to take her out on vacation, to stop whining and be thankful for sex at least once a month, etc.
Let’s use the same mentality women use when they ask men to stop whining when their wife stops having sex. Well, maybe this man is depressed, maybe his girl hurt his feelings, maybe she’s not helping him enough in areas he needs help, maybe she has not valued him, he is too tired, he got a headache, sudden change in responsibilities at work, and so on. She's having sex once a week. Can't be that bad, is it?
A few months and now sex has changed from almost every day to once a week!
I've already expressed my frustration and I've stated I see a lack of sex after such a short time as a big problem. Not only because it leaves me agitated and unsatisfied but what's the explanation. Haven't gotten a satisfying reason yet. What does this say about the rest of the relationship?
And when we do have sex its a chore to get it to happen, chore to get us in sync and it kind of puts me off. I still go through with ;-) but it's not as much fun.
Thoughts?
Your partner could have started a sexual relationship with another person on the side.
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