Has he met someone else?

[sinsativ]

Yes! Maybe!! No! Thats my final answer!!

[*Sixy*]

Originally Posted by lureva

To be honest I didn't know what to expect, I didn't really set any expectations... but I also hate not knowing what's going on...and I'm horrible at figuring it out. And I'm even worse at drawing the line, I don't know if it's appropriate for me to ask him what the deal is, I dont want to come off as someone who expects so much so early on. BUT on the hind side... he is the one who has asked me to move to LA and/or Hawaii ( where he grew up ) So I was under the impression he wanted something serious, I just haven't taken the step to titling what we have. Moving on won't break my heart, I'm just the girl who always wants an answer.

You just answered your own question. If moving on won't break your heart, then you really aren't invested in this relationship. If you are the girl that always wants an answer, then why wait around for him to give you an answer? It's obvious to me what the answer is. End it.

It sounds to me like you really aren't all that into HIM, but you liked the fact that he was into you and you liked the way he made you feel. He talked about you moving with him, he talked about the long-term and that was probably flattering...but if ends, your heart won't be broken.

Think about that. It will never work long-distance if you aren't invested in this relationship.

[theluckygal]

Originally Posted by lureva

So, theres this guy I've been kinda seeing the last 4 months, he moved temporarlily to LA (about 7 hours from me) we still talk and visit...and are in the midst of planning a camping trip right now. He's not one to constantly text or call, but he does make an effort at least eveyday or every other day.... but this past week he has only texted (if at all) when responding to a text I sent first. Early on this week there were two days where he never responded to my texts or returned my calls until i told him I was concerned, then he called... and we talked about our camping trip. Then again...he hasnt really returned my calls or texts the last two days. I am confused at this point, I thought he was completely interested.. the last text I got from him was a text about how he liked me...that was 2 days ago.. havent heard from him since..I'm getting mixed signals and am not sure how to read this... has he possibly met someone else?

If you are confused then ask him straight up where this is going & if he is serious about you? If he is not answering your calls, texts & not showing much interest in the trip, chances are he has moved on & you should do the same. If he was really interested then you would not have so many questions or confusion. Holding onto him longer wont change his mind. These things happen all the time so dont think too much about it. He might have met someone else or the long distance thing is not working out for him. In his mind its not going anywhere so he is not responding. Just read the signs & break it off. A lot of men are not really good at breaking up with women they care about & respect so this is their way of fading away without hurting your feelings.