Questions for women about meeting the right men (attractive, personality, friends)

[MatP]

Hey, I have a few questions for all women out there. I am looking for a variety of perspectives when it comes to meeting & attracting the man (men) of your dreams. Whether you've succeeded or still working on it I am sure you have something valueable to share.

1. What would be your dream scenario/outcome? In detail, exactly what kind of guy are you looking for?

2. What have or haven't worked for you so far?

3. What do you think the solution is? What would you like it to be?

4. In this context, what are your biggest fears and frustrations? Be as specific as you can.

Hopefully this will make you contemplate things you haven't considered before and be helpful to others as well. Thanks in advance.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by MatP

Hey, I have a few questions for all women out there. I am looking for a variety of perspectives when it comes to meeting & attracting the man (men) of your dreams. Whether you've succeeded or still working on it I am sure you have something valueable to share.

1. What would be your dream scenario/outcome? In detail, exactly what kind of guy are you looking for?

2. What have or haven't worked for you so far?

3. What do you think the solution is? What would you like it to be?

4. In this context, what are your biggest fears and frustrations? Be as specific as you can.

Hopefully this will make you contemplate things you haven't considered before and be helpful to others as well. Thanks in advance.

To find a person who has similiar ideas as me and likes and dislikes. Movie to a semi warm place. Decent size house. Doing things we both enjoy. And respecting each other.

Men that were not on the same page.

Turn gay? J/K. Look for patience and decency. Not fun adventurous type.

I will die alone. Frustration in my self when it's me who pushes people away. I guess it's a defense-mechanism. Build walls up.

Make me see I need a damn hug!

[jade408]

OK I'll bite

Originally Posted by MatP

Hey, I have a few questions for all women out there. I am looking for a variety of perspectives when it comes to meeting & attracting the man (men) of your dreams. Whether you've succeeded or still working on it I am sure you have something valueable to share.

1. What would be your dream scenario/outcome? In detail, exactly what kind of guy are you looking for?

Looking for a life partner I connect with emotionally, intellectually, physically and I guess spiritually is the other "element." Outcome? Whatever life has in store. A partnership with lots of memories, success, good times, travel, and good friends.

2. What have or haven't worked for you so far?

I do a horrible job of going outside my box and meeting new people. And being open to people that don't seem like my "type" off the bat.

3. What do you think the solution is? What would you like it to be?

Expand my social circle. Finding someone with similar enough interests is important to me.

4. In this context, what are your biggest fears and frustrations? Be as specific as you can.

General insecurity. I know I have a great personality. But of course like everyone, I worry if I am pretty enough, attractive enough, "hot" enough.....

[jade408]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Make me see I need a damn hug!

**virtual hugs!**

I know the feeling!