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Old 08-29-2012, 08:46 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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That's exactly how it's supposed to work.
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Old 08-29-2012, 11:31 PM
 
Location: Central California
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It would be even more confident to ask her out in person when you first meet her.

Nice work though. Let us know how this goes.


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Old 08-30-2012, 12:10 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I'm trying to be more straight forward and confident.
Why wouldn't it be that easy? That's all it takes in many cases.
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Old 08-30-2012, 07:19 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It would be even more confident to ask her out in person when you first meet her.
That's what I was going to suggest, too, but you know how "kids these days" do things ...

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Old 08-30-2012, 09:11 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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I've got a date on Tuesday. We were "hooked up" you could say, through a mutual friend. One facebook message is all it took. I thought long and hard of what to say. You know what her reply was?

"Yes! Let's grab dinner next week? (name)"

I was shocked that her reply seemed to come from a fortune cookie. Glad I thought long and hard about my initial message.
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Old 08-30-2012, 09:13 AM
 
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I'm trying to be more straight forward and confident.
it CAN be that easy, sure, if the girl definitely wants to go out with you.

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Why wouldn't it be that easy?
um... Have you ever asked a woman out on a date before?
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Old 08-30-2012, 09:15 AM
 
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I wouldn't wait a few months though. If you only met briefly, she might not remember who you are.
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Old 08-30-2012, 11:21 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Seems legit.
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Old 08-30-2012, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Gotham
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Seems legit.
It would be even more legit if he waits 4 months to ask for a second date.
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Old 08-30-2012, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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You'd be surprised how just being bold and showing some confidence works. Sometime you gotta get straight to the point.
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