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Old 08-30-2012, 05:23 AM
 
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We've been know each other for about 2 months. Normally I to text her everyday, asking how's going on and stuffs. I think she gets bored by me asking the the same things everyday. But we dont talk much to each other in person, perhaps we dont have anything in common. I'm always the one who texts her first, she only texted me first once. Sometimes i just dont know how to break the awkward silence between us, i just dont know what to say...i'm afraid that she might lose interest in me, but I really love her.
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:27 AM
 
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If you don't have the ability to have a real conversation with her on the phone let alone in real life while together how do you expect to remain together for a really long period of time? If she thinks you are boring after 2 months she is going to think even less of you as time goes on. I think you need to break it off with this girl and look for someone who is much more compatable for you and she can move on and find someone more compatable for her. Good luck.
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:34 AM
 
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Sounds like she's about to move on so you may want to do the same.
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:40 AM
 
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But if i dont text her even in a day, she'll come up to me and ask me why..
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:42 AM
 
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We've been know each other for about 2 months. Normally I to text her everyday, asking how's going on and stuffs. I think she gets bored by me asking the the same things everyday. But we dont talk much to each other in person, perhaps we dont have anything in common. I'm always the one who texts her first, she only texted me first once. Sometimes i just dont know how to break the awkward silence between us, i just dont know what to say...i'm afraid that she might lose interest in me, but I really love her.
David, you really lust after her, but you cannot love anyone based on two months of texting someone that you have nothing in common with. Love is something that comes from sharing life together. Maybe you should go a week without contacting her, and see if she suggests some actual face time?
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:46 AM
 
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Then maybe you guys shouldn't be dating. I wouldn't want to be with someone who tells me I'm boring...

Ditto the comment above.
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:46 AM
 
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I would give advice but your post bored me.
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:48 AM
 
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Well, last week i went on a vacation with my family for 10 days. When i came back, she was fine but both of us is kinda busy with our things right now, maybe i should ask her out her like watching movies etc. ?
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Old 08-30-2012, 06:23 AM
 
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Maybe she's one of those girls who believes she shouldn't be the first one to text.

You both sound dull. Might be a perfect match.

YES. Take her on a real date where you can do something together. Not the movies. Go on an activity date, like a bike ride or hiking.
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Old 08-30-2012, 06:33 AM
 
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Default My girlfriend says that i'm boring..

Hmmm... Not easy to find any positives in that.

I feel that being single approaches you.
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