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Old 09-04-2012, 07:03 PM
 
Location: North NJ by way of Brooklyn, NY
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This was about 15 years ago.

Met this guy in a bar by Rockefeller Center. This was back in the days of party lines via phone and not through the internet. We meet at the bar, he buys me a drink and then as soon as I take my first sip, this starts:

Him: So, you are beautiful and have a smoking body, I thought I would be disappointed.
Me: You're not so bad yourself
Him: So what do you say we go back to my place, maybe you, me and my friend can get better acquainted.
Me: :::blank stare:::
Me: I really don't think so, I'm not that type of woman, but thanks for the drink.

I promptly left. I had a really bad vibe and wondered if I had been stupid enough to go with him, would I have been double teamed and never heard from again.

A few weeks ago I had this one, I have a few summer dresses with flowers on them. As I was walking into the train station I heard this:
"Damn you're fine girl, you mind if I sniff on your flowers?"
WTF seriously.
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Old 09-04-2012, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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This was about 15 years ago.

Met this guy in a bar by Rockefeller Center. This was back in the days of party lines via phone and not through the internet. We meet at the bar, he buys me a drink and then as soon as I take my first sip, this starts:

Him: So, you are beautiful and have a smoking body, I thought I would be disappointed.
Me: You're not so bad yourself
Him: So what do you say we go back to my place, maybe you, me and my friend can get better acquainted.
Me: :::blank stare:::
Me: I really don't think so, I'm not that type of woman, but thanks for the drink.

I promptly left. I had a really bad vibe and wondered if I had been stupid enough to go with him, would I have been double teamed and never heard from again.

A few weeks ago I had this one, I have a few summer dresses with flowers on them. As I was walking into the train station I heard this:
"Damn you're fine girl, you mind if I sniff on your flowers?"
WTF seriously.
Maybe "my friend" was just a euphemism for his c***.
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Old 09-04-2012, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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I had just gotten off of working a 10-hour shift and was standing in line at Walmart with a handful of junk food (was supposed to be my supper). A customer in front of me was taking forever getting a price check so I put my food on a shelf next to me. As soon as I did that, I heard "Is THAT what you're eating for supper?" I thought it was a joke. He asked what I was planning on making for supper, so I told him Mac N' Cheese. Turns out he was a chef and offered to cook for me. He could tell I was a little creeped out... so he even offered to take me out to dinner if I promised NOT to buy that junk food lol. I declined because I was exhausted from work and we parted ways.
I like that one too actually, think I'd have accepted but for another night when I wasn't exhausted
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Old 09-04-2012, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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I've had some pretty creepy come ons by people online, can't think of anything specific except to say it's the "normal" looking guys that seem to be the worst. I would much rather someone wear their "freak" on the outside, at least a person knows what to expect that way.
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Old 09-04-2012, 11:11 PM
 
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It's hard to think on your feet at times.

Add in nervousness and you might say anything.

Which is why I'm never so pointed...I'd just ask a safe harmless question.

I wonder what stuff women would come up with?

It's not easy.
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Old 09-05-2012, 03:51 AM
 
Location: Temecula, CA
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I don't have too many interesting creepy pickup attempts, but my ex-boyfriend's grandfather did sit us down for a serious talk about intimacy when we had been dating for 2 months and proceeded to talk about the things that we MUST be doing because I, "have a nice rack". I was staying at this man's house for a week and was pretty traumatized. -_- It always seems to be the old ones...lol
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Old 09-05-2012, 08:38 AM
 
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I don't have too many interesting creepy pickup attempts, but my ex-boyfriend's grandfather did sit us down for a serious talk about intimacy when we had been dating for 2 months and proceeded to talk about the things that we MUST be doing because I, "have a nice rack". I was staying at this man's house for a week and was pretty traumatized. -_- It always seems to be the old ones...lol
Oh man that's ridiculously creepy.
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Old 09-05-2012, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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I posted this on another thread some time ago.

Girl in bar: "(my name), my legs are basically spread open for you." UGH. Creepy from a girl, who'd of thought?
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Old 09-05-2012, 10:06 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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I don't have too many interesting creepy pickup attempts, but my ex-boyfriend's grandfather did sit us down for a serious talk about intimacy when we had been dating for 2 months and proceeded to talk about the things that we MUST be doing because I, "have a nice rack". I was staying at this man's house for a week and was pretty traumatized. -_- It always seems to be the old ones...lol
If you didn't have CA listed as your hometown I would be afraid that you were talking about my grandpa.
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Old 09-05-2012, 10:12 AM
 
Location: Gotham
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Oh man that's ridiculously creepy.
Especially since according to her profile its says she a junior in high school, it stands to reason this old dude was staring at a rack of a 16-17 year old
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