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Old 09-05-2012, 04:14 PM
 
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It makes sence as text has less emotional load then speech but in the same time it could be tricky as you can assign any emotion value you chose even to most innocent words. Written words can be easily misconstrued.
So true. Personally, I suck at writing. I'm much better communicating live in person.

I also place a lot of importance on body language.
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Old 09-05-2012, 04:28 PM
 
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We talked on AIM a few times...however, I have no problem talking. My problem is more so...what seems small, and unimportant to me, might seem like the end of the world to someone else.

Problems are to be solved,,,not cried over, or time wasted with making yourself 'feel' better..

However, I did cry and was upset during the cheating thing (the "just hang up on him," and her doing it is what got me), so I'm not exactly emotionless...
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Old 09-05-2012, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Long thread I don't care to read all of this mess, but I have a question for you, When is the last time you made her go OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUU AHHHHHHHHH and curl her toes?
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Old 09-05-2012, 04:46 PM
 
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Long thread I don't care to read all of this mess, but I have a question for you, When is the last time you made her go OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUU AHHHHHHHHH and curl her toes?
A little before she did the other guy without a condom.

Now - I'll leave that business to some of the other fellas on the site..
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Old 09-05-2012, 08:29 PM
 
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We talked on AIM a few times...however, I have no problem talking. My problem is more so...what seems small, and unimportant to me, might seem like the end of the world to someone else.

Problems are to be solved,,,not cried over, or time wasted with making yourself 'feel' better..

However, I did cry and was upset during the cheating thing (the "just hang up on him," and her doing it is what got me), so I'm not exactly emotionless...
Buddy, if you really has Asperger you feel some lower level emotions such as anger or sadness but it might be difficult for you to form relationships with people based on love, friendship etc.
Did you talk to somebody about that? I would do that.
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Old 09-05-2012, 11:49 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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A little before she did the other guy without a condom.

Now - I'll leave that business to some of the other fellas on the site..

Couldn't have, or she wouldn't have ran right to another guy.
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Old 09-06-2012, 12:48 AM
 
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Couldn't have, or she wouldn't have ran right to another guy.
Eh, he was the guy "with tattoos" she always wanted.

Plus her internet guy friend egged her on (chat transcriptions).

I don't really care, not an issue, we're divorcing.
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Old 09-06-2012, 01:52 AM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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Do it! Why should you be good if they weren't ?! Life is too short for patience and virtue
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Old 09-06-2012, 07:07 AM
 
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Do it! Why should you be good if they weren't ?! Life is too short for patience and virtue
I would think the main reason he can't is that he was a virgin before meeting his wife online at age 16 and now he can't perform with any other women. He definitely needs to spend some time building up his self esteem as an individual before dating anyone.
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Old 09-06-2012, 08:53 AM
 
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I would think the main reason he can't is that he was a virgin before meeting his wife online at age 16 and now he can't perform with any other women. He definitely needs to spend some time building up his self esteem as an individual before dating anyone.
perform? like erectile dysfunction???
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