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Well...there's that little issue of HE WON'T LEAVE HER.
He's sitting right there, next to her, eating taco bell. If he was so heartbroken over her cheating he'd be gone, but he's not.
She can leave him. She's the unhappy one.
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Originally Posted by *Sixy*
He's going to be feeling temporarily bad (or not feeling at all) if one of these guys, their friends or one of her family members decides to come beat the living daylights out of him.
Now that is wishful thinking.
They know they cheated with her.
He'll probably hit on her next, and she's so dumb she'll let him.
Actually I'm still here -
PLEASE actually read my posts.
Particularly -
1. We're still married.
2. I've paid all the bills (since she's been out of work most of the year..)
3. I relocated away from my family to be up here with hers (1200 miles).
4. Bought my first house (with her), only to (less than a year later) have her cheat with her highshcool flame...
5. Went from thinking I was at the stage of starting a family in my life - to being suddenly thrust in this situation.
6. Despite being the person PAYING for her to live here, am giving her the house (and waiting until she can afford to not miss a bill payment) until I move out.....
For some reason you believe I'M the one living rent free...
1. We're still married.
2. I've paid all the bills (since she's been out of work most of the year..)
3. I relocated away from my family to be up here with hers (1200 miles).
4. Bought my first house (with her), only to (less than a year later) have her cheat with her highshcool flame...
5. Went from thinking I was at the stage of starting a family in my life - to being suddenly thrust in this situation.
6. Despite being the person PAYING for her to live here, am giving her the house (and waiting until she can afford to not miss a bill payment) until I move out.....
And 7. I'm not the one who lied to the marriage counselor, and had her WARNING my wife that eventually I would be at my limit, and not take anymore of the emotional affair, men online, flirting with friends BF's etc etc etc.
And you are still there, eating Taco Bell.
Dude, move out. Put the house in her name if you want her to have it and leave. If she misses a payment who freakin' cares. That's her issue.
Now that is wishful thinking.
They know they cheated with her.
He outed them on their facebook pages. Of course they know they cheated with her...but now so does everyone else on their friends list. That is reason enough to **** one of them off.
He outed them on their facebook pages. Of course they know they cheated with her...but now so does everyone else on their friends list. That is reason enough to **** one of them off.
1. We're still married.
2. I've paid all the bills (since she's been out of work most of the year..)
3. I relocated away from my family to be up here with hers (1200 miles).
4. Bought my first house (with her), only to (less than a year later) have her cheat with her highshcool flame...
5. Went from thinking I was at the stage of starting a family in my life - to being suddenly thrust in this situation.
6. Despite being the person PAYING for her to live here, am giving her the house (and waiting until she can afford to not miss a bill payment) until I move out.....
For some reason you believe I'M the one living rent free...
I have read your posts.
You need to either get out of HER HOME (regardless of whos paying what, you've given it to her) and stop contacting her friends, her family, her lovers, her workmates, who ever the hell else, because that is STALKING.
You can justify your behaviour all you want but you are clearly in a dysfunctional relationship with this woman and you know what you're doing is wrong...and deeply sick and strange.
Dude, move out. Put the house in her name if you want her to have it and leave. If she misses a payment who freakin' cares. That's her issue.
What is your problem?
The emotional aspect is done and over with. We're getting a divorce, we can still be civil to one another. I'm moving away.......
There's leaving with emotions running high, purposely trying to hurt one another (ie, me taking the money I've earned and leaving her with nothing..), and then there's being civil..which doesn't cause us any harm.
I'd rather eat taco bell, talk to her as a friend, and leave on good terms.
She does too.
Hence why we can go get and eat taco bell right by one another.
I feel bad enough for being upset and emotional that night...I don't need to continue it.....
You know what...you go right ahead and plead his case. The more details he gives, the more I have to wonder why anyone would think this was sane behavior.
He's no innocent...I don't know why you are feeling like he is justified.
I rather think she was justified in her cheating when you read his past posts:
I'm really starting to wonder what's wrong with some of the people on this forum. Stop blaming the victim.
She made her bed. Now, she gets to sleep in it. Should all of Facebook know what a wh*re she is? YES!
And op, she already lied to you tons of times. Don't take her back or seek counseling or anything like that. Cut her out of your life and start dating new girls asap.
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