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Old 09-09-2012, 09:11 AM
 
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You're in her just friends zone which means she's most likely no longer available in the romantic/sexual category for you, sorry.

Onto the next woman.
Agreed. No worries.

Funny thing is we actually became friends because I asked her out and she shot me down. Then I just stayed friends with her (not trying to do anything about it really...just enjoyed her company) and things moved forward.

Obviously, not expecting it to happen again, but you never know I guess.

And I'm already dating someone new so no worries
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Old 09-09-2012, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Yes, strangely enough women enjoy sex.
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Old 09-09-2012, 11:41 AM
 
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Yes, strangely enough women enjoy sex.
What would I do without you, bro? Thanks.
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Old 09-09-2012, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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If immediate sex is that important to the young woman- you might want to stay clear and not get involved. She may look at sex as a trivial thing ...a thing she can get any where... I would go the old fashioned route if you want something serious..get to know and like each other first....or LOVE each other before you have sex - sex is not love- sex is sex...depends on what you want...a high quality relationship based on sex and love- Or a lower grade relationship that is based on sex?
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Old 09-09-2012, 11:58 AM
 
Location: DC/Brooklyn, NY/Miami, FL
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How old are you?
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Old 09-09-2012, 02:29 PM
 
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If immediate sex is that important to the young woman- you might want to stay clear and not get involved. She may look at sex as a trivial thing ...a thing she can get any where... I would go the old fashioned route if you want something serious..get to know and like each other first....or LOVE each other before you have sex - sex is not love- sex is sex...depends on what you want...a high quality relationship based on sex and love- Or a lower grade relationship that is based on sex?
Honestly, I have no idea. I do know that this girl seriously dated people and claimed not to have sex with them. Of course, I have no idea if that's actually true.

I'd prefer not to have sex until we've been dating for a while (which is what I did in my only relationship and it worked very well). But I don't know if that works (hence my question). If it was going to work in any situation, it should have been this one (since we were very good friends beforehand).

I very much want a high quality relationship, but I don't know how to go about getting one. Most of my friends tell me that having sex with the girl keeps her around more often than not because it gets her much more emotionally attached.

I thought this situation was different. They disagreed and appear to have been correct.

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How old are you?
I'm 25.

She's 23.

I've had plenty of sex, but clearly have no idea how to get into a relationship, which is what I really want.
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Old 09-09-2012, 02:34 PM
 
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I've had plenty of sex, but clearly have no idea how to get into a relationship, which is what I really want.
You can do both. Just give her lots of time, attention and reassurance.
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Old 09-09-2012, 05:00 PM
 
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You can do both. Just give her lots of time, attention and reassurance.
Thanks!

You guys make it seem so simple lol
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Old 09-09-2012, 05:02 PM
 
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Thanks!

You guys make it seem so simple lol
I'm not far off from you in age, so I can relate. I learnt the hard way as well. Oops.

It's easier said than done.
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Old 09-09-2012, 05:32 PM
 
Location: bold new city of the south
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Default Does Having Sex With A Girl Make Her Like You More?

You, , no.

Me, , probably.
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