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View Poll Results: Would you date a woman with aspergers?
Yes 18 45.00%
No 12 30.00%
I don't know. Explain below. 10 25.00%
Voters: 40. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 09-16-2012, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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No. Plain and simple.
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Old 09-16-2012, 08:06 PM
 
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No.
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Old 09-16-2012, 08:18 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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My wife is bipolar and I've managed to live with that for 16 years.

I don't consider her a bipolar. I consider her a person who also happens to have bipolar disorder. It doesn't define her. It's simply one facet of a multi-faceted human being.

Would AS be any worse or just different? I guess my answer to the question is "Possibly!" It would depend on the whole person.
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Old 09-16-2012, 09:46 PM
 
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My wife is bipolar and I've managed to live with that for 16 years.

I don't consider her a bipolar. I consider her a person who also happens to have bipolar disorder. It doesn't define her. It's simply one facet of a multi-faceted human being.

Would AS be any worse or just different? I guess my answer to the question is "Possibly!" It would depend on the whole person.
Different spectrum but overall experience could be similar. By the way, how is it living with a ticking time-bomb? Are you ever concern about well-being of your kids when they are with their mother?
I do undertsand that even bi-polar has different faces and can be treated to some extent yet the threat is always there. Are you ever scared what you spouse may do?
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Old 09-16-2012, 11:02 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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there are just as many 'nos' as there are 'yes' and most of hese men come with their own little personal baggage of issues -- but instead like to pretend they're perfect. most of them are no good anyways, is the funniest part.
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Old 09-17-2012, 03:12 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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Different spectrum but overall experience could be similar. By the way, how is it living with a ticking time-bomb? Are you ever concern about well-being of your kids when they are with their mother?
I do undertsand that even bi-polar has different faces and can be treated to some extent yet the threat is always there. Are you ever scared what you spouse may do?
We have no children together. I was 50 and she was 48 when we married and children were neither wanted nor an option.

No worries! Medication worked well for years as has no medication for the past three years. In retirement we moved to another state in a beautiful, rural area that is peaceful and quiet. It's also far away from any of our combined seven children, their families and all that drama. The lack of "triggers" has been a godsend.

Scared? Not in the slightest.
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Old 09-17-2012, 03:45 PM
 
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does anybody know of any Autism/Asperger Syndrome dating websites, online dating sites for people with that? give me specific names please
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Old 09-17-2012, 09:11 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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does anybody know of any Autism/Asperger Syndrome dating websites, online dating sites for people with that? give me specific names please
Some attractive ladies at WP. Try and make friends with them first. It's a better approach than online dating.
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Old 09-18-2012, 08:39 AM
 
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Hell no. I'll never date one.

They're hyper-rational, and I detest people like that.
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Old 09-18-2012, 11:44 AM
 
Location: An absurd world.
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For me, things like metal disorders only make up a portion of an individual's personality. All people with autism/asperger's don't act alike. Same applies to people with anxiety disorders, OCD, bipolar, ADHD, etc. It all boils down to the individual.

So to answer the question, yes I could date a woman with autism/asperger's if we shared some common interests and personality traits.
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