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Old 09-13-2012, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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No one is saying women have to accept porn.

The point is, women who get very upset over their SO watching it, tend to be insecure and the porn is just re-affirming that. If it's not that it's probably always going to be something. Your men looking at other women in public, your man commenting on an actress appearance-or some women's outfit on the street, female co-worker texting-anything will set off a women whose insecure with who she is.
So what though? What woman wouldn't be insecure if her man is getting off to women who look better than her? Online everyone likes to act like they are so confident in themselves but most women would have a problem with this IRL. Yes I'd get upset if my partner looked at other women while in public with me. That means he isn't happy with how i look

 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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The only person telling you that you are not good enough is you. Get some therapy.
blame the woman. when its really the man who is the problem
 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:38 PM
 
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So what though? What woman wouldn't be insecure if her man is getting off to women who look better than her? Online everyone likes to act like they are so confident in themselves but most women would have a problem with this IRL. Yes I'd get upset if my partner looked at other women with me. That means he isn't happy with how i look
Hmmm everyone? I watch porn with and without my bf all the time. I dont care, because I know how to give him what he wants in the bedroom. I may not have DD's but I'm petite and I know how to take care of him. If one day he decides that it's not good enough and picks porn over sex with me...onto the next.
 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:38 PM
 
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you are pretty much telling me that I will never be good enough for a man

I did not think you would "get it". Good luck to you.
 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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So what though? What woman wouldn't be insecure if her man is getting off to women who look better than her? Online everyone likes to act like they are so confident in themselves but most women would have a problem with this IRL. Yes I'd get upset if my partner looked at other women while in public with me. That means he isn't happy with how i look
I think you are putting the cart before the horse. You don't even have a man - and you already think he's not happy with how you look. Geez - if you are going to fantasize about a boyfriend - can't you at least make him happy with you?
 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:41 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I think you are putting the cart before the horse. You don't even have a man - and you already think he's not happy with how you look. Geez - if you are going to fantasize about a boyfriend - can't you at least make him happy with you?
I've had a relationship before and I did not like my partner looking at porn or nudie magazines. I would shred his booty magazines and through the porn in the garbage
 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Men will downsize porn time, when the wife:

1. Maintains a certain overweight range
2. Dolls herself up
3. Bleaches/shaves pleasure zones and other areas regularly
4. Wears fashionable clothes
5. Is very entertaining in the bedroom

The big problem, the crocodile's five point expectation plan is satisfied only by less than 15% of the women on earth. Feel sorry for my human brothers.
 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:42 PM
 
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No. You're wrong for wanting to control where your partner looks.

But as you say, this means you will be single forever.

It sounds like you have it all figured out, so what, exactly, is the point of this thread?
 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Boston
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So what though? What woman wouldn't be insecure if her man is getting off to women who look better than her? Online everyone likes to act like they are so confident in themselves but most women would have a problem with this IRL. Yes I'd get upset if my partner looked at other women while in public with me. That means he isn't happy with how i look
Women who are secure in themselves and their appearance and believe they are the baddest b*tches on the planet. Also, this type of woman does not care to compare herself to others. She recognizes a beautiful woman, and doesn't care if her s/o looks at her because at the end of the day who is he honestly telling "I love you.", "You're beautiful.", "Marry me.", etc.

Not the chick on the computer screen or the woman down the street.

Stop being a victim and take responsibility for yourself. You have become your own worst enemy.
 
Old 09-13-2012, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I've had a relationship before and I did not like my partner looking at porn or nudie magazines. I would shred his booty magazines and through the porn in the garbage
Well, that's one way to handle things. I usually try talking but whatever works for you.
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