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Men really do compare their wives to the women they see in music videos, and in porn. They say they don't do this because their s/os might stop having sex with them.
nyanna, seriously, stop with these remarks about what men do, as you have no clue. I'm not trying to attack or be nasty, but based on your threads about lack of relationships and other things, you have no business talking about what men or women do, likes, dislikes or how they think. Nothing ever seems constructive to you, as much as the same people, including myself, offer you some solid advice. I don't see anything else that can be added to this thread. I don't disagree with you that if you are against porn, your SO should respect you and not watch it but that isn't the case here. It's about a potential SO never setting eyes upon ANYONE, even if they're fully dressed because he will want her more than he wants you. Sweetie, you are an intelligent woman. Please think about counseling or some therapy. I mean this sincerely. It's really not about the porn or the magazines. I think this thread has run its course.
you don't have to be frumpy for a guy to compare you to other women. you can be someone who is just not the ideal. my interactions with guys have always been hearing them talk about women and comparing their looks to each other
nah, she's attracted to men that only want one thing, she's immature enough to believe that if she gives them sex they have a relationship, then finds out that, it was a one night stand, and she gets upset because she used sex to get the man, not thinking, hey, if he's hooked by sex with me, then, he'll be hooked by someone else as easily.
she uses a shortcut to create a so called relationship, then hates the fact that she was stupid enough to not see that if you catch a fish with that bait, so can anyone else.
Its not a relationship, it was a booty call. You fantasize about it being a relationship, but dont want to put in the time and effort it takes to make one. You come on here and whine about men looking around, and you don't even realize, they were looking around when you found them.
work for a relationship, dont just put out to create it. What you put in, you'll get out.
or look at naked women online? I will be single for the rest of my life then
Not at all. If you were to say you think looking at such images was wrong in and of itself then I would think you were wrong. But there is no "right" and "wrong" in deciding for yourself what you want from a relationship. Only you can define what you want from a relationship and if porn is a "no no" for you then that is just how it is and there is nothing "wrong" in this.
Is there anything constructive to gain from this thread anymore?
No. When someone posts asking for guidance and rejects everything that goes against what they believe, they are not looking for guidance. They want to argue and be the victim. Total turn off in the world of secure and drama free people.
My Wife tried to introduce me to watching porn, watching other people boink, just doesn't do it for me.
My husband did the same Bec and it didn't float my boat either. I don't enjoy watching porn...to me intimacy between to loving partners is the most special feeling one can experience and can be done without watching porn to enhance it.
As far as destroying your SO's property you can be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law and that will follow you for the rest of you life. Try getting that great job you want with a malicious destruction of property record. There isn't an employer that would be able to trust you...and your talking about not trusting a man for watching porn or looking at another woman.
You really need some counseling and there is not a thing wrong with that. You just need a little help. Apparently you parents didn't give you enough self-worth growing up, and they were lacking in a trusting relationship.
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No. When someone posts asking for guidance and rejects everything that goes against what they believe, they are not looking for guidance. They want to argue and be the victim. Total turn off in the world of secure and drama free people.
Let's not forget those who realize they need help to deal with their drama and get that help.
Well, there are men who do that which is why I don't like them watching porn or music videos with half naked women in them. If it makes me unhappy then he is a jerk if he continues to watch it
When you try to control other people like this...and jealously squeeze and grip them like this...they will either be driven away or just lie to you.
No, its unhealthy for a guy to look at Beyonce videos so he can lust after her if he has a girlfriend who looks nothing like her. I put that in the category of abuse.
I put this statement in the category of 'nuts.'
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Is there anything constructive to gain from this thread anymore?
