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Old 09-14-2012, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Petticoat Junction
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But you won't do that...you'll be back with more threads about being a victim. You'll ask for advice, seek input, seek validation...and refute and refuse everything that's offered...but most importantly, you'll look for ways to continue to be a "victim". You're not a victim.

Well, perhaps a victim in cocoa butter. There's that.

 
Old 09-14-2012, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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It's better to be alone than to settle for what you don't want.
Exactly. If she feels that what she wants is not attainable, then better to be alone, than to be miserable with someone else.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 11:30 AM
 
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Exactly. If she feels that what she wants is not attainable, then better to be alone, than to be miserable with someone else.
The problem is that, in both context and reality, she'll never be happy. She wants unconditional love, ultimate devotion, and acquiescence of control all the while offering nothing but constant, self seeking , negativity.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Midwest
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But you won't do that...you'll be back with more threads about being a victim. You'll ask for advice, seek input, seek validation...and refute and refuse everything that's offered...but most importantly, you'll look for ways to continue to be a "victim". You're not a victim.
I just find sexy images of other women very threatening and i don't like how easily accessible it is to most men. it bothers me.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 11:55 AM
 
Location: NC
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I just find sexy images of other women very threatening and i don't like how easily accessible it is to most men. it bothers me.

Perhaps you could move somewhere like Afghanistan or Taliban controlled Pakistan.


You wouldn't have any problems then!
 
Old 09-14-2012, 12:03 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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I just find sexy images of other women very threatening and i don't like how easily accessible it is to most men. it bothers me.
That is why you have to work on your own insecurities. Once you overcome all of those, if you can, those sexy images will be just that. Sexy images. You can't touch them, they are not real.

You need to build your self esteem and try and move past the different issues you are facing personally.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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That is why you have to work on your own insecurities. Once you overcome all of those, if you can, those sexy images will be just that. Sexy images. You can't touch them, they are not real.

You need to build your self esteem and try and move past the different issues you are facing personally.
but its not just the images, those women are real people and you can see them in real life. like i've said before, I've had men compare me to those type of women and it has made me feel very inadequate. i have good reason to be insecure and threatened by it
 
Old 09-14-2012, 12:33 PM
 
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Old 09-14-2012, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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you can tease me all you want. but its really hard to feel confident when there is so much pressure for women to look a certain way.
 
Old 09-14-2012, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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you can tease me all you want. but its really hard to feel confident when there is so much pressure for women to look a certain way.
Pressure is when you lose your job the week before Christmas, and you don't have any presents for your kids.

Pressure is when you have to get some money to keep your lights on.

There is no pressure for you to look a certain way, many men will be attracted to you, many men won't. Pay attention to those who do.
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