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Gosh, I'm starting to feel like that person that's alone during the holidays while everyone around me is all cuddled up, kissing and professing their love to one another.
That person that goes grocery shopping by herself while all the other women are shopping with their man and kids.
Am I The ONLY Woman On Here That's NOT Married?
In every thread, it appears over 95% of the women here are happily married. Perhaps, we could use more threads on the secret to finding Mr. Right, where to best find him and keeping him satisfied.
I do blame part of it on myself however. I am not normal. I've never been to a club, I work from home and the few times I do get out of the house (maybe once per week), I always get approached but I have anxiety and I'm too self-conscious to actually talk to the men.
F my life. lol
Every other night I feel like slapping myself for being too shy to get to know someone. Feels like I will never overcome my personal issues and will die lonely. I live the life of a 90 year old, literally.
I guess the real question is not how to meet a guy, but how to overcome personal issues to give him a shot? I am still working on myself, in many areas. I guess the real deal is that I feel I am not on the same level as the men I attract and want in my life, so I keep trying to fix me before getting involved with anyone. I always question what they see in me. If that makes any sense to you.
So, ladies and gents, what's your secret? Go ahead, don't be selfish.
Last edited by KittyGirl88; 09-13-2012 at 10:38 PM..
Be comfortable in your current situation and I'll tell you that it does make you more appealing to men. At least for me there is nothing more pathetic and annoying than a woman desperate for a man. I'm sure women will attest to the opposite as well.
Gosh, I'm starting to feel like that person that's alone during the holidays while everyone around me is all cuddled up, kissing and professing their love to one another.
That person that goes grocery shopping by herself while all the other women are shopping with their man and kids.
Am I The ONLY Woman On Here That's NOT Married?
In every thread, it appears over 95% of the women here are happily married. Perhaps, we could use more threads on the secret to finding Mr. Right, where to best find him and keeping him satisfied.
I do blame part of it on myself however. I am not normal. I've never been to a club, I work from home and the few times I do get out of the house (maybe once per week), I always get approached but I have anxiety and I'm too self-conscious to actually talk to the men.
F my life. lol
Every other night I feel like slapping myself for being too shy to get to know someone. Feels like I will never overcome my personal issues and will die lonely. I live the life of a 90 year old, literally.
So, ladies and gents, what's your secret? Go ahead, don't be selfish.
I'm 64 and have never been married or lived with anyone (althought I do have a son). Once in a while it's lonely ... but I have no idea what it would be like to live with someone ... and by now it doesn't matter anymore.
Gosh, I'm starting to feel like that person that's alone during the holidays while everyone around me is all cuddled up, kissing and professing their love to one another.
That person that goes grocery shopping by herself while all the other women are shopping with their man and kids.
Am I The ONLY Woman On Here That's NOT Married?
In every thread, it appears over 95% of the women here are happily married. Perhaps, we could use more threads on the secret to finding Mr. Right, where to best find him and keeping him satisfied.
I do blame part of it on myself however. I am not normal. I've never been to a club, I work from home and the few times I do get out of the house (maybe once per week), I always get approached but I have anxiety and I'm too self-conscious to actually talk to the men.
F my life. lol
Every other night I feel like slapping myself for being too shy to get to know someone. Feels like I will never overcome my personal issues and will die lonely. I live the life of a 90 year old, literally.
So, ladies and gents, what's your secret? Go ahead, don't be selfish.
At least for me there is nothing more pathetic and annoying than a woman desperate for a man. I'm sure women will attest to the opposite as well.
True being desperate would creep out even the marriage-minded men. I figure if I had to mention it even once as a reference (to see if our goals, hobbies and future plans are similar) only to know he's no where on the same page, then it's not worth the nagging and the whole ''waiting till he changes his mind''. I wouldn't like the idea of a forced commitment or him only doing it because I told him but it has to come from within him too.
No most of the women on this forum are not attached as it is a freakshow of romantic problems. See a therapist or psychiatrist if you have mental problems.
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