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Old 09-14-2012, 07:11 PM
 
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My answer is yes. Feel free to add opinions and stories.
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Old 09-14-2012, 07:35 PM
 
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I agree, and add that it works the other way, too: People who are selfish in bed are usually selfish in other areas of life.

Selfishness is a character flaw, and like all character flaws, it pervades everything.
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Old 09-14-2012, 07:35 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Yup. I've been told I aways hog the covers

But seriously, I think many people are selfish in some sort of way and I know I can be selfish at times with random, unimportant things in daily life. There are times I just wanna get my jollies and skip over a thing or 2. Same with hubby, especially in the mornings, if you get my drift.
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Old 09-14-2012, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Boston
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In my experience, surprisingly no. My ex is a selfish person, but when it came to sex she was actually very much focused on my pleasure, sometimes even at the expense of her own.
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Old 09-14-2012, 07:38 PM
 
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I would say there's a definite correlation.
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Old 09-14-2012, 07:51 PM
 
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Possibly not, but someone who is selfish in the bedroom is probably always selfish outside of the bedroom.
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Old 09-14-2012, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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In my experience yes.
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Old 09-14-2012, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Pa
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My answer is yes. Feel free to add opinions and stories.
Why who was the selfish person you banged?
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Old 09-14-2012, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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I dated a pretty selfish woman once. The answer is no.
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Old 09-14-2012, 08:50 PM
 
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I agree, and add that it works the other way, too: People who are selfish in bed are usually selfish in other areas of life.
Too right.


And to answer the original question: yeah, it seems that way.
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