U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 1.5 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Jump to a detailed profile or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Business Search - 14 Million verified businesses
Search for:  near: 
 
 
Old 09-17-2012, 05:16 AM
 
Location: DC/Brooklyn, NY/Miami, FL
1,179 posts, read 1,291,935 times
Reputation: 391
Default Cuckold Marriages/Relationships

I play & He waits: The Science of Cuckold Marriages - by Susan Grower

Am I the only one who thinks cuckolds are digusting? I mean what other people do is their own business but no man with any self esteem or respect is gonna allow and watch their woman have sex with other men. Idk why but reading that article has scared the hell out of me and I have a new perception on women now, even my own wife. Ladies please tell me this is not how you guys are "wired".
Quick reply to this message

 
Old 09-17-2012, 05:24 AM
 
2,387 posts, read 1,098,887 times
Reputation: 1731
I didn't make it past the first paragraph. Screw that
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2012, 05:43 AM
 
6,058 posts, read 3,413,272 times
Reputation: 13940
I think you're looking for stuff to be scared about. Maybe do some research on Paxil.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2012, 05:55 AM
 
Location: Nowhere Land.
7,811 posts, read 3,103,413 times
Reputation: 10418
This quote is quite funny.

"The first is centered on finding a mate for life to help support her and her offspring. This is why (and when) love is such an important part of a women’s sexual desire. The second is a desire to obtain a variety of the best genetic material to produce the healthiest children. This second desire becomes stronger once a woman has secured her life mate, and grows stronger as time with him progresses."

Maybe she should have picked the one with strong genes the first time, and not the one with the most dosh.


Alternative meaning; She wants to leave him, but stll wants his money, and likes to sleep around!
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2012, 06:02 AM
 
Location: Greenbelt, MD
5,664 posts, read 2,023,008 times
Reputation: 20556
Quote:
Originally Posted by BioMechanical View Post
I didn't make it past the first paragraph. Screw that
I also stopped reading at that point.

Hard to imagine there is a man alive who would agree to such nonsense.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2012, 06:15 AM
 
19,081 posts, read 11,993,625 times
Reputation: 13226
Quote:
Originally Posted by BKmachine View Post
I play & He waits: The Science of Cuckold Marriages - by Susan Grower

Am I the only one who thinks cuckolds are digusting? I mean what other people do is their own business but no man with any self esteem or respect is gonna allow and watch their woman have sex with other men. Idk why but reading that article has scared the hell out of me and I have a new perception on women now, even my own wife. Ladies please tell me this is not how you guys are "wired".
It's possible. But on to more important topics- I have a bridge for sale in your area. PM me and I'll get you the details and give you a great deal.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2012, 06:25 AM
 
Location: TX
5,926 posts, read 2,224,304 times
Reputation: 2556
Sounds like Susan Grower's got an agenda *shrugs* Justification for being more of a hornball than the men she personally knows (and absolutely no references to support that women truly become more sexually bored with their relationship and on the lookout for new sexual partners).

But regardless of "the science" of cuckold "marriages", any woman who would do this sort of thing is going against biology in a number of ways. Primarily, women have always and will always have more to lose by engaging in risky sexual behavior. They are the only ones who can get pregnant, and they are more vulnerable to numerous STDs than men. Practically speaking, this and the original evolutionary take that men's job is to spread their seed would suggest that it's the men who should be sleeping around (not that I'd approve of that either). These facts have been confirmed, unlike the claim that this sort of "marriage" would be beneficial in any way whatsoever.

In fact, the only study cited at all was one that found that a man being entirely without his woman will make him want her more sexually. Has nothing to do with the woman having sex with other men, however. Nice try, Susan. By all means, be a **** if you want; but don't try to justify it with "science", lol.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2012, 06:42 AM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
11,072 posts, read 10,910,255 times
Reputation: 11142
Interesting.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2012, 06:48 AM
 
Location: NY
6,098 posts, read 5,071,068 times
Reputation: 6559
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-17-2012, 06:56 AM
Status: "Character is what you do when no one is looking..." (set 23 days ago)
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston
21,022 posts, read 22,214,952 times
Reputation: 49960
Obvious BS. I think that the sex therapist & relationships counselor Susan Gower has a pretty sick imagination...
__________________
"No Copyrighted Material"
Moderated forums: Houston, San Antonio, Tallahassee, Macon, Duluth, Exercise and Fitness, Fish, Home Interior Design and Decorating.
When in doubt read: ToS, Mod List, Rules & FAQ's, Guide, CD Home page, How to Search
Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


 
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:
Over $84,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

2005-2014, Advameg, Inc.

City-Data.com - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 - Top