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Many of you belong to all the world for them to use, sample you and discard while lying about their pasts and most importantly health issues that can affect them by doing the act. It only takes one wrong one and you're not immune.
Whatever gauge is used it should be applied equally between men and women.
Taking responsibility for ones actions applies to both women and men.
And many humans act lower than animals when it comes to spontaneously doing the act within a very short period of time, why isn't that time used to learn, love (without sex) and respect one another without using each other? It just seems that a good percentage of people are used like disposable rag puppets.
So to some of you, does it now feel good that you were used and discarded over and over again? Really think about this before jumping the gun with a possible response.
Does the so-called experience really matter? Whatever happened to doing it be for an SO?
I may be saying what many of you deem be against the grain, but then again it needed to be said.
This post is not meant in a mean way, but if you take it that way it's your problem.
Why write just from the slant of those giving it up, who end up "used and discarded over and over"? What about derision for those who use and discard others over and over?
Bottom line, it takes two to tango. Men have no right preaching from some higher moral ground about wanting a more pure wife, not a woman who has had multiple relationships/sex partners in her past, yet those very same men would sleep with any woman who looked their way, until they decided to settle down.
Bottom line, it takes two to tango. Men have no right preaching from some higher moral ground about wanting a more pure wife, not a woman who has had multiple relationships/sex partners in her past, yet those very same men would sleep with any woman who looked their way, until they decided to settle down.
You only feel used and discarded if you have the intention of using sex as a means to start a relationship.
If both parties understand that the relationship is sex-based only, no one feels discarded.
You can make sex an exclusive activity, only done with a committed partner. But what if you have 10 or 20 committed partners over a lifetime? Experience is experience. Those who learn from it gain something.
Of course everyone is entitled to their own opinions but we as a society IMHO have been stooping to new lows.
That 10 or 20 you mention I venture to say becomes plenty more because of the lies that many of these so-called committed partners do the cheating act.
HERPES is real and it's available enough at a liar near you.
"You only feel used and discarded if you have the intention of using sex as a means to start a relationship."
IMHO this is where a good enough percentage of society lacks morals, values, ethics, honesty and besides sex is "plastic" love as it doesn't compete with TRUE LOVE from the heart and soul where a ROCK SOLID foundation exists and would much more often than not is for the long haul. Too much emphasis on sex as "love" and perhaps used as a real poor excuse.
"If both parties understand that the relationship is sex-based only, no one feels discarded."
They both are still being used like rag puppets IMHO.
Of course everyone is entitled to their own opinions but we as a society IMHO have been stooping to new lows.
That 10 or 20 you mention I venture to say becomes plenty more because of the lies that many of these so-called committed partners do the cheating act.
HERPES is real and it's available enough at a liar near you.
"You only feel used and discarded if you have the intention of using sex as a means to start a relationship."
IMHO this is where a good enough percentage of society lacks morals, values, ethics, honesty and besides sex is "plastic" love as it doesn't compete with TRUE LOVE from the heart and soul where a ROCK SOLID foundation exists and would much more often than not is for the long haul. Too much emphasis on sex as "love" and perhaps used as a real poor excuse.
"If both parties understand that the relationship is sex-based only, no one feels discarded."
They both are still being used like rag puppets IMHO.
Lots of IMHO going on here. So, I'll take YOUR opinion as a minority. YOU feel people are being used like rag puppets. I'm sure those having sex regularly and enjoying it, dont feel the same way, or honestly dont care either way.
Im sure "H" is for humble opinion...
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Lots of IMHO going on here. So, I'll take YOUR opinion as a minority. YOU feel people are being used like rag puppets. I'm sure those having sex regularly and enjoying it, dont feel the same way, or honestly dont care either way.
Nope, we don't We're having all the fun while others make all the judgments.
Some of the people on this board remind me of the typical old biddie, looking down her nose at others for their choices and clicking her tongue while she leads an empty, lonely life.
Originally Posted by findly185 Lots of IMHO going on here. So, I'll take YOUR opinion as a minority. YOU feel people are being used like rag puppets. I'm sure those having sex regularly and enjoying it, dont feel the same way, or honestly dont care either way.
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Originally Posted by MatildaLoo
Nope, we don't We're having all the fun while others make all the judgments.
Some of the people on this board remind me of the typical old biddie, looking down her nose at others for their choices and clicking her tongue while she leads an empty, lonely life.
It's yes my Humble opinions and know I'm in the minority and don't care.
If it works for you and many others - more power to you.
I know I'd like to hold a woman in my arms and look in her eyes she'll know that I'm not looking at her as a "V" but as a partner of the heart and soul.
Originally Posted by findly185 Lots of IMHO going on here. So, I'll take YOUR opinion as a minority. YOU feel people are being used like rag puppets. I'm sure those having sex regularly and enjoying it, dont feel the same way, or honestly dont care either way.
It's yes my Humble opinions and know I'm in the minority and don't care.
If it works for you and many others - more power to you.
I know I'd like to hold a woman in my arms and look in her eyes she'll know that I'm not looking at her as a "V" but as a partner of the heart and soul.
Well I have that now with my SO. I also had my fun. And as I said further back in the thread, he couldn't care less what my number is.
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and know I'm in the minority and don't care.