Tips from the ladies men

[Maverick2012]

In my experience, it's always better to get the girl into bed as soon as possible (if you desire any kind of lasting relationship with the girl). I've lost many girls by not sleeping with them (and it was blatantly obvious that that was the reason).

[Veyron]

Originally Posted by Peanuttree

OK, like I've said before a few times, I'd love a relationship, but could also go for more loose/fun sex/dating in general

Some men here at least claim to be ladies men

So, if I'm just trying to get laid/get a regular girl (if she's it as more than just fun, all the better, I'll stick around), here's the best I come up with

-keep initial "hang outs" short - an hour. Being too long with someone you don't know quickly becomes "blah"/boring. Do things preferably with a distraction/something to do. Nothing is more forced than just sitting there eating a meal with the other person.

-try to do group dates, to keep the conversation going - again, "blah" dates. One idea I been thinking about

-ask her about her, make her talk. Don't disagree with much. I remember one poster (one of the ones this is essentially directed at) said girls just "go with the flow". That is don't be a pushover, just happen to be similar to her to some extent, at least don't disagree with her/say you don't like something she likes.

-Maybe this is good advice, heard it on "That '70s Show", Donna asks him how he ever gets a girl and he says "I just wait until she stops talking and I kiss her". I figure you try this repeatedly on different girls until it works on one. Obviously you wait for the right time, but you get the idea

lather, rinse repeat
anybody got more SPECIFIC tips?

I'm sorry but this advice is B.S