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Old 09-24-2012, 05:50 PM
 
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So if a woman goes to a sperm bank and fertilizes herself, the man is responsible because it is his sperm?
Yes by her rationale.
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Old 09-24-2012, 06:22 PM
 
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Yes by her rationale.
Looks like she's reevaluating her rationale
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Old 09-24-2012, 06:27 PM
 
Location: 500 miles from home
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Anyways, something very important to mention:

If you get a woman pregnant out of wedlock and don't show up at the child birth:

It's very HARD to get any child support ruling against you. Keep that in mind, both men and women.
False. You heard of DNA testing?

I'm sorry but you sound so immature; I hope you grow up, keep your pants on; and attempt to be a decent father to your children ~ IF any of that story is true.
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Old 09-24-2012, 06:28 PM
 
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False. You heard of DNA testing?

I'm sorry but you sound so immature; I hope you grow up, keep your pants on; and attempt to be a decent father to your children ~ IF any of that story is true.
Good luck tracking a guy by court order just on name alone for a DNA test.

Some people are so naive here
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Old 09-24-2012, 06:37 PM
 
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Good luck tracking a guy by court order just on name alone for a DNA test.

Some people are so naive here
That is a decent point. Just give a woman fake name and a one night stand. If she gets pregnant how is she really going to find you.
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Old 09-24-2012, 06:43 PM
 
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If the relationship was consensual, the man should be ready and willing to step up into the role of a father. Unfortunately we don't always see that. A real man cannot be forced into an entrapment situation such as this because a real man would step up to the plate and do what is right.
And what is right? Marrying a girl you can barely stand because she hasv our kid? Is this going to be a happy marriage and childhood for the kid?
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Old 09-24-2012, 07:06 PM
 
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That is a decent point. Just give a woman fake name and a one night stand. If she gets pregnant how is she really going to find you.
Oh, oh guys - scuse me. I was working under the assumption that you actually KNEW the person you were sleeping with.

One night stand with a stranger - yeah, that's going to be hard to track down.

But, assuming that you actually know the person who you are sleeping with (let's say . . had some kind of relationship with) - it matters not if he chooses to be present at the birth. You can still pursue child support.
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Old 09-24-2012, 07:59 PM
 
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But, assuming that you actually know the person who you are sleeping with (let's say . . had some kind of relationship with) - it matters not if he chooses to be present at the birth. You can still pursue child support.
Yea, of course. You can pursue anything. But it isn't easy, and it's costly. And it can be damn near impossible depending on the situation. You can't just waltz into court and be like John Smith impregnated me, do a DNA test! You need to file a suit, and get evidence. And everything gets COMPOUNDED in difficulty if John Smith moves away, to a different state and she has to track him down before she can even file the suit for the DNA. Really, why do you think there are so many moms out there not getting any support while the guys in question have impregnated, and sometimes started families of their own?

How. Can. Folks. Here. Be. So. Naive.
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Old 09-24-2012, 08:02 PM
 
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Oh, oh guys - scuse me. I was working under the assumption that you actually KNEW the person you were sleeping with.

One night stand with a stranger - yeah, that's going to be hard to track down.

But, assuming that you actually know the person who you are sleeping with (let's say . . had some kind of relationship with) - it matters not if he chooses to be present at the birth. You can still pursue child support.
This forum is like the Jerry Springer show. A third are guests with their ghetto baby mamma and toothless baby daddy sharing their stories of mental illness, criminality, and stupidity. Another third is the interactive audience throwing tomatoes at them, and the other third watches silently in shock.
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Old 09-24-2012, 08:10 PM
 
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This forum is like the Jerry Springer show. A third are guests with their ghetto baby mamma and toothless baby daddy sharing their stories of mental illness, criminality, and stupidity. Another third is the interactive audience throwing tomatoes at them, and the other third watches silently in shock.
Maybe not Jerry Springer, but he would make an excellent guest:


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