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I think it was a mistake to skype anyway with someone you only had one date with. It is very easy to be lulled into thinking there is something there prematurely or to make it feel like it's a relationship when it's not yet. It is possible he met someone else, just lost interest, etc. It is NOT personal, this man doesn't even know you yet, so how can it be? I would not write him again, next time take it slow and make sure you don't put all your eggs in one basket until a guy tells you he wants to date only you (and that can only come with face to face time).
OP, where is your country anyway. and if i were u, i will let it go. it's only 1 date. he blocked you without saying a word. that's like a slap in the face IMO. and why would i bother with someone like that? unless u wanna get 'slapped' again.
and if you are interested why do u ignore or not reciprocate him showing interest on you? actually for me the guy is just being logical. so should u. i mean he has a life u know? so do u.
i just hope he didnt see it in a way that i was not interested....because i ignored his talk like we should go some place together. and when i said my hometown is nice he said that he wants to see it someday, i also ignored that. But i was otherwise talking to him very nicely.
He probably did see it that way, should this topic come around again with him or someone else be slighty more open with your response.
That'll make you look really creepy if you call him out on it. Sometimes I block people on my list when I don't feel like talking to anybody. It's messenger and you're living in a different country right now. Chill out...
I'm siding on theearthbeneathme on this one..
This is what I'm wondering. When you block someone you show up as offline. On Skype I think she would have to add him under another name to find out if he blocked her. Either way, no one should obsess this much.
I've had so many people block me on Skype and Facebook and all those sites. Does it bother me? No. There are way too many awesome people in this world to get to know to be hung up on just a small portion of them who decided to make the mistake of blocking me.
Durig the skype conversation, he said thingst that shows he's interested like, he wish we could spend more time together before i left, that after I go back to u.s, we should go places together etc. But I didn't respond to those words because i was being shy.
Then you say this -
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Originally Posted by nameunknown
i just hope he didnt see it in a way that i was not interested....because i ignored his talk like we should go some place together. and when i said my hometown is nice he said that he wants to see it someday, i also ignored that. But i was otherwise talking to him very nicely.
So, first of all you claim you were "being shy" which is ridiculous as you were on a computer, and shyness is not something you have control over anyway.
Then you acknowledge you ignored his questions.
So - which is it? Shy?
Or intentionally being ignorant and avoidant?
I call it "game playing" and so, I'm guessing, does he.
You will never hear from him again.
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