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Old 09-23-2012, 07:53 AM
 
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I had a date with this guy for one time and he asked to meet again but I had to go back to my home country for 1 month. So I give him my skype and we added each other. He contact me a few days after on skype and we IMed on skype breifly and I had to go out so we finished the conversation.

A few days after the converstaion, I found out that he blocked me on skype.

He seem like a nice and polite person, It doesnt make me feel good to be blocked without knowing what went wrong.

Durig the skype conversation, he said thingst that shows he's interested like, he wish we could spend more time together before i left, that after I go back to u.s, we should go places together etc. But I didn't respond to those words because i was being shy.

Like I said, he seem like a gentalman and he has always initiated the conversations. I was thinking of meeting him again when i get back to u.s.


Should I just move on or should I shoot him an email ask what's going on?
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:03 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Lol move on. He already has apparently.
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:08 AM
 
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ouch, that's just not nice to show interests and then block that someone right after....
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:09 AM
 
Location: NYC
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He doesn't like you. Move on.
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:12 AM
 
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He doesn't like you. Move on.
sorry for being obssesive....but if he doesn't like me, why did he ask for meeting again. and after I gave him my skype, he email me to ask if we could vedio chat on skype...
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:20 AM
 
Location: NYC
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sorry for being obssesive....but if he doesn't like me, why did he ask for meeting again. and after I gave him my skype, he email me to ask if we could vedio chat on skype...
At first he wanted to talk to you, and then he didn't. Why? Maybe he started sleeping with his neighbor. Maybe he thinks you are uglier than he remembered. Maybe your were a rebound date to begin with and he got back with his girlfriend. Maybe he is gay and decided to stop living life as a lie. Maybe you said something that constitutes a deal breaker for him. Maybe he just wanted chat with you out of boredom. Maybe you gained weight and he is no longer attracted. Maybe he gained weight and is embarrassed.

At the end of the day the "why" does not matter. All that matters is that he no longer wishes to speak with you. Move on.
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:32 AM
 
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On a less negative note perhaps he started taking your shyness for a lack of interest? Who knows. Given that it won't kill you, you could just pop him an email letting him know that you enjoyed your conversations and are having a wonderful time where ever you are. If he doesn't respond then that's that. I don't know what a skype block looks like, but sometimes I make myself invisible or take myself off line when I see my parents come on line. It will remain like that until I either restart my comp or get a call asking me what's up.
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:34 AM
 
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Or maybe his wife or GF got wise and did you a favor.
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:36 AM
 
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Move on and if he contacts you again see where it goes if you want, otherwise don't. Either way not a big loss as I see it, not much time, effort or energy invested so far.
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Old 09-23-2012, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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I had a date with this guy for one time and he asked to meet again but I had to go back to my home country for 1 month. So I give him my skype and we added each other. He contact me a few days after on skype and we IMed on skype breifly and I had to go out so we finished the conversation.

A few days after the converstaion, I found out that he blocked me on skype.

He seem like a nice and polite person, It doesnt make me feel good to be blocked without knowing what went wrong.

Durig the skype conversation, he said thingst that shows he's interested like, he wish we could spend more time together before i left, that after I go back to u.s, we should go places together etc. But I didn't respond to those words because i was being shy.

Like I said, he seem like a gentalman and he has always initiated the conversations. I was thinking of meeting him again when i get back to u.s.


Should I just move on or should I shoot him an email ask what's going on?
Perhaps email him saying you would like to see him again. Tell him you were just shy when he asked.

Best of luck to you.

Have a beautiful day.
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