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I am not sure what to make of this new issue because while I sound like I am bragging I am not. I have several men who are interested in me, some I have met, some are from online sites I talk to offline, some are guys I know outside of dating sites. There are 16 in all. Meanwhile I am not sure about the guy I really like. I saw him today but didn't really talk. He said hi to me but he was doing something so no long conversation. Last week I asked him if he would like to hang out and he said he would because he is lonely but when I called him this weekend to come over he never called back (though to be fair I told his mom who answered the phone he didn't have to call me back).
I really don't know what to do because he's the only one I am interested in but on the other hand if he's not interested I hate to give up a sure thing. These guys fit what I desire in a mate.
Hi, since I don't see a question in there, I'll just mosey on to my own - have you been introduced to what Mr. Herpes and some of his other STD friends are capable of?
16 or 17 men are not hanging by a thread waiting for you to 'decide what you're going to do.' They are probably weighing their options with other women just the same. You can't have one and then put the rest of the men away in a 'rainy day fund.' Pick one and keep it movin.
16 or 17 men are not hanging by a thread waiting you to 'decide what you're going to do.' You can't put the rest of the men away in a 'rainy day fund.' Pick one and keep it movin.
Well I like the one but I fear he doesn't like me. I don't want to wait for him because what if he doesn't want me?
I am not sure what to make of this new issue because while I sound like I am bragging I am not. I have several men who are interested in me, some I have met, some are from online sites I talk to offline, some are guys I know outside of dating sites. There are 16 in all. Meanwhile I am not sure about the guy I really like. I saw him today but didn't really talk. He said hi to me but he was doing something so no long conversation. Last week I asked him if he would like to hang out and he said he would because he is lonely but when I called him this weekend to come over he never called back (though to be fair I told his mom who answered the phone he didn't have to call me back).
I really don't know what to do because he's the only one I am interested in but on the other hand if he's not interested I hate to give up a sure thing. These guys fit what I desire in a mate.
You're being way too reticent with the guy you like. Invite him over to a weekend lunch and a fun activity afterwards, if only browsing through the bookstore (I have no idea what your town offers), or invite him for dinner if lunch isn't an option. Just do it. He'll be thrilled. Your future is waiting. Go for it! If, after some conversation and hanging out, you decide he's a dud, then you can move on to the other 16 guys, lol!
If you can't see the answer to this quandary for yourself, then frankly, you're beyond help...............
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Originally Posted by Idon'tdateyou
I am not sure what to make of this new issue because while I sound like I am bragging I am not. I have several men who are interested in me, some I have met, some are from online sites I talk to offline, some are guys I know outside of dating sites. There are 16 in all. Meanwhile I am not sure about the guy I really like. I saw him today but didn't really talk. He said hi to me but he was doing something so no long conversation. Last week I asked him if he would like to hang out and he said he would because he is lonely but when I called him this weekend to come over he never called back (though to be fair I told his mom who answered the phone he didn't have to call me back).
I really don't know what to do because he's the only one I am interested in but on the other hand if he's not interested I hate to give up a sure thing. These guys fit what I desire in a mate.
Just pull down all of their pants and go out with the guy who has the biggest unit. You cant lose then.
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