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Hello everyone. I'm a newbie here. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years and 3 months ago I moved in with him. I've never been suspicious of him cheating on me in our entire relationship...until now. See, there's this woman at his work and he's talked about how "cool" she is and how much they have in common and they also became friends on Facebook and have posted on each others' walls. He even told her on FB how much he appreciates her and how much her checking on him when he had to miss a day of work meant to him. He's also been acting "different" and now he's turning down sex, but one night he turned it down I saw him on the computer when he thought I was asleep "doing something" while looking at internet porn. I don't know what to do...on the outside everything seems fine between us (except no sex) but this is driving me crazy. In fact, I'm posting this because I can't sleep! What does everyone think? Am I just being paranoid or what? Thanks so much!
first things first.
talk to him about it. you wont solve anything by asking others what hes doing.
you have been together 5 years, you should be able to confide with one another without fear. if not its time to start taking the first steps at better communication
If your BF is turning down sex for porn or his lady friend, something is wrong. He could very well be cheating, but I Don't know enough about him to make a judgement, but others here could help give you an accurate answer.
first things first.
talk to him about it. you wont solves anying by asking others what hes doing.
you have been together 5 years, you should be able to confide with one another without fear. if not its time to start taking the first steps at better communication
Correct.
If you can't talk to him about it, then what hope do you really have anyway?
Hello everyone. I'm a newbie here. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years and 3 months ago I moved in with him. I've never been suspicious of him cheating on me in our entire relationship...until now. See, there's this woman at his work and he's talked about how "cool" she is and how much they have in common and they also became friends on Facebook and have posted on each others' walls. He even told her on FB how much he appreciates her and how much her checking on him when he had to miss a day of work meant to him. He's also been acting "different" and now he's turning down sex, but one night he turned it down I saw him on the computer when he thought I was asleep "doing something" while looking at internet porn. I don't know what to do...on the outside everything seems fine between us (except no sex) but this is driving me crazy. In fact, I'm posting this because I can't sleep! What does everyone think? Am I just being paranoid or what? Thanks so much!
In my experience, people who suspect cheating are not only usually right, but they are usually underestimating the severity off the betrayal. If you suddenly suspect someone is cheating, there's a good chance they've been doing it for quite a long time and you're only now catching on.
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