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Old 10-15-2012, 06:06 PM
 
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I'm turning 22 this year and I've never been rejected based on my ethnicity (african american), if anything I'm usually rejected over my height being a measly 5'7. I've also dated girls of all races, Hispanic, Asian, Black and White, but where you live probably plays a big role in this.
You are Shaq though lol

 
Old 10-15-2012, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I guess it is pretty rare. I've gone out with a Chinese guy, a Korean guy, an Indian guy, and a white/Filipino guy (he was hot), so I'm all for it but it seems that white men are more likely to show interest in me than Asian men.
I've gone out with more South Asian (and Arab/Middle Eastern) guys than east asian (chinese, japanese, korean). Filipinos are always hitting on me for whatever reason.

Arabs/Middle Easterners/Fillipinos/Mexicans are the most common for me. More common than white guys. Who knows how that works.
 
Old 10-15-2012, 07:13 PM
 
Location: West Coast
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"rejected over my height"
So getting rejected on the height thing is as common as the guys on here say?

"I've also dated girls of all races"
Of course BM/WF, then WM/AF are the two groups that date out the most and for the longest period of time. AM/BF is as common as Unicorn sightings in most all places, even though I do occasionally see this combination in Southern Ca but only twice in Arizona, and almost nowhere else. NY, LA, SF are different then the rest of the country and even there it's area specific.
BM/AW is also as common as Unicorn sightings in most all places. As a rule, Asian women generally do not date or marry Black men. Many reasons that many Asian women will give for being with White men could also be ascribed to Black men, and yet Asian women steer clear. I think it has to do with the fact that many Asian women want their children to be half-white. Many Black men want their children to be half-white too, so I guess they have that in common. Honestly, I have seen BM/AW couples, but is not common by any means.
 
Old 10-15-2012, 08:48 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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BM/AW is also as common as Unicorn sightings in most all places. As a rule, Asian women generally do not date or marry Black men. Many reasons that many Asian women will give for being with White men could also be ascribed to Black men, and yet Asian women steer clear. I think it has to do with the fact that many Asian women want their children to be half-white. Many Black men want their children to be half-white too, so I guess they have that in common. Honestly, I have seen BM/AW couples, but is not common by any means.
Generally, Asian women will make the exception for Black men if (and only if)....the BM have high paying jobs, own a (successful) business or are a celebrity/athlete.
 
Old 10-16-2012, 12:02 AM
 
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I've gone out with more South Asian (and Arab/Middle Eastern) guys than east asian (chinese, japanese, korean). Filipinos are always hitting on me for whatever reason.

Arabs/Middle Easterners/Fillipinos/Mexicans are the most common for me. More common than white guys. Who knows how that works.
That is your all those are minorities and the complexion of skin color is similar too.
 
Old 10-16-2012, 12:20 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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That is your all those are minorities and the complexion of skin color is similar too.
Yeah pretty much. Well OK their tones tend to be similar. I tend to be darker.

I notice a trend, generally speaking, only the darker white guys approach me too. And the darker asian guys. Hmmm.......
 
Old 10-16-2012, 03:13 AM
 
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Yeah pretty much. Well OK their tones tend to be similar. I tend to be darker.

I notice a trend, generally speaking, only the darker white guys approach me too. And the darker asian guys. Hmmm.......
I pretty much only get fairer white guys and would prefer a darker one. lol

Anyway, I would think it probably has more to do with location than anything else. CA is a lot more ethnically diverse than where I live.
 
Old 10-16-2012, 03:16 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm not sure what a "darker" white guy is..... you talking about a white boy with some flava... as the brotha's would say... ....


 
Old 10-16-2012, 05:58 AM
 
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I'm not sure what a "darker" white guy is..... you talking about a white boy with some flava... as the brotha's would say... ....


LOL, I'm talking about dark hair, dark eyes and not fair skinned (although I'd be fine with just the dark hair).
 
Old 10-16-2012, 01:00 PM
 
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I'm not sure what a "darker" white guy is..... you talking about a white boy with some flava... as the brotha's would say... ....


Italian dark skin guy.
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