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He told about imagining walking on me cheating. For the past 3 months or so he's been suggesting me to do if I wanted to and he keeps saying ''I wouldn't mind, it's ok if you want to but if you don't fine''.
Why would a man want to share his gf? What type of man suggest that?
Right now I'm feeling both shocked and unloved to the point I feel like crying. I would never in my life want to share my man. What's wrong with him? Is he cheating? I'm I dealing with a closeted guy? Or does he just doesn't care nor loves me anymore?
Isn't this the way you treat a girl that's only a fling to you (certainly not your loving gf) or the ones you find in bars? I have a feeling he's up to something. I don't think a normal guy who loves his gf as he claims to would even suggest this (in fact, guys would normally get jealous of another guy trying to flirt with his gf).
All of your questions can only be answered by him but I would not expect to get the entire truth. Best to get away from him now before something happens that you really don't want to happen.
Also a M-M-F fantasy is more common for the female than the male in the relationship IMO.
Just like a F-F-M fantasy is the more common for the male than the female.
Sure, but in this case? The dude definitely has a cuckold fetish. Now, just to explain how this fetish works, it's a form of masochism. It's definitely not that he doesn't like or value his girlfriend anymore - quite the contrary! It's because he values her so much that it works for him. Seeing his partner with another man causes him deep anger and shame, which is emotional pain. Because he's a masochist, that excites him. See how it works? So it wouldn't work if he stopped caring about his girlfriend, it's the jealousy it elicits that's the whole point of the fetish. Here's an article with an explanation of the psychology behind this - yes - fairly common fetish:
Believe it or not, this is a fairly common fantasy. You can certainly say "no" to him, but you shouldn't read so much negativity into this desire of his. I'm willing to bet lots of men have fantasies that would shock and upset their GFs--and vice versa, fo course.
I agree that something is going on. I think that he either wants to do a threesome or foursome with you and this is how he is starting that plan, or he is or wants to have an affair of his own and if you have a guy, then why shouldn't he have a girl. That way he won't feel as guilty. Have you made it really clear to him that you are not at all interested in doing this? He really needs to know how you feel. If he continues with this and doesn't listen to you, then you are with the wrong guy.
He told about imagining walking on me cheating. For the past 3 months or so he's been suggesting me to do if I wanted to and he keeps saying ''I wouldn't mind, it's ok if you want to but if you don't fine''.
Why would a man want to share his gf? What type of man suggest that?
Right now I'm feeling both shocked and unloved to the point I feel like crying. I would never in my life want to share my man. What's wrong with him? Is he cheating? I'm I dealing with a closeted guy? Or does he just doesn't care nor loves me anymore?
Isn't this the way you treat a girl that's only a fling to you (certainly not your loving gf) or the ones you find in bars? I have a feeling he's up to something. I don't think a normal guy who loves his gf as he claims to would even suggest this (in fact, guys would normally get jealous of another guy trying to flirt with his gf).
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