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I don't think that's normal at all. Someone who is really into his/her relationship would never even think about sharing their partner.
Trust me its going to happen. Does your BF have a small penis? If so, that might be the cause of it. Make sure to check out his porn usage. I would almost guarantee he is going to suggest that you bang another man while he watches.
Is he saying you can sleep with other people because he wants an open relationship or is he saying he wants to act out a fantasy where he catches you cheating and then has a threesome/punishes you/ravishes you, etc? One is a sign of a crumbling relationship, the other could just be him sharing a fantasy that could enrich your sex life (if you're open to it).
If it's about the fantasy, see if y'all can find a way to get the excitement without actually involving another person. Could you role play? Have him walk in and pretend your lover just left or find you touching yourself? Get in some kind of play argument and challenge him to prove he's so good in bed that no man can compare?
Regardless, you should talk to him about it and get some clarifications and set some boundaries. If you are absolutely opposed to bringing someone else into your relationship in any capacity, let him know and work together from there.
No I will not bring anyone else in. I don't like none of that.
Isn't that the purpose of being in a commited relationship? Two people that love each other either are together and work out their issues or break up but never bring another else into the picture.
I really thought I knew him and was loved but I'm starting to think now that maybe I didn't know him at all.
There's nothing wrong with him. Some guys with small penises have cuckolding fetishes. You can look at the bright side, he still does love you. Plus, I'm sure the big black stud who will bang you will be better in bed than your BF so your orgasms won't mind your BF's fantasies
Nobody on this forum get out into the world much? This is actually a fairly common fetish with men. I don't think it means that he does not love you but rather he is probably a very visual guy and would like to actually see/view you being sexual, As an outsider. It's a pretty common male fantasy.
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