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Old 10-04-2012, 03:19 PM
 
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This is way more common than you think. My many gay male friends are constantly bragging about their sexual conquests with married or opposite-sex partnered men. In fact, I've read that most men who engage in sexual acts with other men DO NOT identify as gay.

Can anyone shed light on this phenomenon? Ladies, if you found out your man was sleeping with other men, how would you react?

 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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If man is having sex with another man, he's gay! I also don't believe in this bi-sexual BS. Either you suck c$ck or you don't, and if you're a male who does then you're gay!
 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:25 PM
 
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I don't know about whether the assertion that most men who have sex with men don't identify as gay is true, but whatever. Whatever they label themselves, they are in fact bisexual at the very least. For myself (I'm a straight woman), as long as someone is truthful about who they are and looking for an exclusive relationship, I wouldn't care about their previous sexual history---assuming I was certain about their attraction to me. I want someone who knows and accepts who they are.
 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:26 PM
 
Location: back in Boston
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A lot of women who have sex with other women don't identify as lesbians, but somehow they get away with it.
 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:26 PM
 
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I've heard about men who identify as straight going around raping men... It is more of a power thing than a sex thing.
 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:40 PM
 
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If man is having sex with another man, he's gay! I also don't believe in this bi-sexual BS. Either you suck c$ck or you don't, and if you're a male who does then you're gay!
It's pretty common, at least among men from the military or prison. Now a guy who identifies as "straight" might not have sucked ****, or ****ed someone in the ass....he might allow a homosexual to suck his **** though. It's a very grey area.

I posted a story here how I picked up a drunk who thought I wanted my **** sucked in return. He got defensive when I told him I wasn't gay, saying he had a gf. Too lazy to retype it.
 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Central California
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If a guy ever messes around with another guy in his life, then he's gay. Simple as that.
 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:52 PM
 
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If man is having sex with another man, he's gay! I also don't believe in this bi-sexual BS. Either you suck c$ck or you don't, and if you're a male who does then you're gay!
Yep
 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:54 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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It's pretty common, at least among men from the military or prison. Now a guy who identifies as "straight" might not have sucked ****, or ****ed someone in the ass....he might allow a homosexual to suck his **** though. It's a very grey area.

I posted a story here how I picked up a drunk who thought I wanted my **** sucked in return. He got defensive when I told him I wasn't gay, saying he had a gf. Too lazy to retype it.
"pitcher" and "catcher" myth...the "pitcher" (giver) isn't gay--the "catcher" (receiving) is.
 
Old 10-04-2012, 03:57 PM
 
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Some guys are just so horny that almost anyone with a warm mouth will do.
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