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Old 10-05-2012, 11:49 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Wait, are we talking different zip codes here ?

Cause we all know what they say about Vegas, different zip codes (or is it area codes), and bachelor/bachelorette parties....
I don't say that and neither does any respectful person. Cheating is unacceptable to me, period.

 
Old 10-05-2012, 11:59 PM
 
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"he wasnt married so it was ok"
if you cant see why this is hilariously off, i have no idea what to really say to you. i dont think telling you why its wrong would even matter with that mindset
 
Old 10-06-2012, 12:09 AM
 
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Nothing wrong with it, fair game.

As long as you are sure both parties are std free and you use protection go for it. I dont look down on neither the guy or girl. If youre not married youre single so why not.

If the grass is green, play ball I always say.
 
Old 10-06-2012, 12:25 AM
 
Location: Kansas City, MO
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are you still considered a homewrecker if you knowingly sleep with a guy who has a girlfriend?

Technically, the guy is still single if he's not married so he's fair game...right?
If somebody isn't married, that doesn't mean they are single and not involved. This isn't rocket science. It's WRONG and makes a person a bad person to knowingly become involved with somebody who is involved. Would you want somebody to do the same to you (have sex with your hypothetical BF when she knew you two were a couple)? This is stuff a 5 year old can grasp. You seem to be playing on the technicality of the guy not being married to make something okay that is not okay. If you couldn't pass up doing something wrong, you'd have to either be very desperate and/or slightly sociopathic. Think about it. And why would you want to be involved with a guy who you know is a cheater? You think he'll magically change for you and stay true because you're that special??? Naive.
 
Old 10-06-2012, 12:33 AM
 
Location: Mississippi
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Originally Posted by colione98 View Post
You need to be a bit opened minded. That tingling feeling you get for an actor on tv that is married is just as bad. Don't put yourself above others. That little white lie you told is just as bad. There is no measuring stick to moral innocence.
Are you being serious,here??
 
Old 10-06-2012, 12:43 AM
 
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Nothing wrong with it, fair game.

As long as you are sure both parties are std free and you use protection go for it. I dont look down on neither the guy or girl. If youre not married youre single so why not.

If the grass is green, play ball I always say.

Famous last words before it happens to you, then it isn't fair game, unless you like to be used only when a better option is not available.

Having sex with someone even though they are not married but in a supposedly committed relationship is just wrong and in my opinion there is no way to justify those actions. If you really do not want to be with someone don't waste their time and move on. It is better to hurt them once when breaking up than to continue to hurt them throughout you alleged "committed relationship".
 
Old 10-06-2012, 06:09 AM
 
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I would never go out with a married man and I would not get involved with someone that had a girlfriend already. You wouldn't be a homewrecker, but I'd question your morals.
 
Old 10-06-2012, 06:24 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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Someone in a relationship is not single why are several people saying this??? Sleeping with anyone knowing that theyre in a relationship is just wrong.
 
Old 10-06-2012, 10:28 AM
 
Location: The analog world
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Originally Posted by nyanna View Post
are you still considered a homewrecker if you knowingly sleep with a guy who has a girlfriend?

Technically, the guy is still single if he's not married so he's fair game...right?
No, he's not fair game. And I think you already know that.
 
Old 10-06-2012, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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It's a cruel, competitive world out thare. Actually, I wouldn't do it unless you two knew the attraction was mutual and he wouldn't put you in the middle of his break-up. The flame would have to be pretty strong.
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