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Old 10-06-2012, 08:54 AM
 
Location: Up North
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You're a virgin. You won't be any good at it. Virgins never are. You'll most likely fumble through foreplay and climax within 15 seconds of starting intercourse. Is that the kind of reputation you want getting around campus? Because trust me: Girls talk.

You're better off waiting until you have a girlfriend so you can work your way up to it.
This^

we girls sure do talk, unless we love you. You won't believe the stories friends of mine have told me.

 
Old 10-06-2012, 09:11 AM
 
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1. Pay for it.

2. Find girl, talk to her, mention "medical school"... (You will hear a "ka-ching" and see $$ signs pop up in her eyes), then ask for a date.

3. Go around campus holding a clipboard and wearing a white medical coat (or green surgical scrubs), stethoscope around neck. Find women and ask if you could have a moment of their time. Say you are conducting a sex study and ask if they would be interested in participating in this research.

4. Craigslist.org - Personals.
 
Old 10-06-2012, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Geauga County, Ohio
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I'm 20 years old, in college, and haven't really established any kind of social life so far. But I want to get laid to get rid of the virgin stigma and to take a weight off my shoulders in that regard at least. Ideas? Road map?
Um, stop posting online and go out somewhere?
 
Old 10-06-2012, 09:21 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Casual sex is miserable?

I was under the impression that this was normal college behavior... lol
For someone like you, YES. It's meaningless and afterwards leaves you feeling lonelier than before.

Like Lilac said, wait until you meet a girl you have some feelings for. It will be worth the wait
 
Old 10-06-2012, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Don't listen to this person. Don't let her get into your head.

Casual sex is fine and an awesome way to lose your virginity.
Come on man - he's 20 and sounds about 16. He's not ready.

Casual sex is not for kids
 
Old 10-06-2012, 09:30 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Nah.

Don't listen to these people, man. Just do it and get it over with. Sex is no big deal.

Now you're making me really sad.

Seriously.

Sex IS a big deal.

Take away the risk of STD's and 18 years of child support to a woman you don't even know, or worse yet, the risk of being party to the murder of an innocent baby (all very big deals) - just on an emotional level, sex with someone you love is THE best sex in the world and one of the greatest things in life you can ever experience.

Obviously, you've never had that kind of sex or you would never call sex "no big deal".

Look, you're young too and I mean no disrespect because you're a great guy and well on your way to being a good man.

But you still have a lot to learn yourself, so be careful trying to teach others here like our OP, please.

Peace
 
Old 10-06-2012, 09:37 AM
 
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lol
 
Old 10-06-2012, 09:42 AM
 
Location: living in OKLA. heart in Alaska
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quit trying women can smell desperation it is not a good scent to be putting off. not trying to to be a kill joy but you would be better off just letting things happen naturally then trying to create a situation where you can get laid,if you really just need to hit something drop the cash for a GFE
provider who offers MSOG at least then you might have a lil confidence.A good provider can also give you some advice on being successful in the dating market.I really can't see not being able to get laid in college.
 
Old 10-06-2012, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Casual sex is fine for people who can handle it. Virgins can't handle it. I had a few back in college. None of them knew what they were doing, they all came in 20 seconds, and I couldn't get rid of them afterward. My roommates and my friends and I laughed about it for a long time, because that's what immature 20-year-old girls do. Best part was when one later went out with another friend. She said he wasn't very good, and blamed me when I cracked up and fessed up to being his first. I said, "Yeah, I didn't hold him afterwards. Sorry."
You come off as an insensitive, callous *****. If I'm wrong, please let me know, but that's the impression you give.
 
Old 10-06-2012, 10:30 AM
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forget about sex , I know that's not possible, but try to just meet girls and have a nice time you will be surprised how this works to get you sex,
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