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Old 10-07-2012, 11:18 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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So one of my friends who I've know for 6 years came out to me back in April and told me he was gay, I embraced him coming out and he and I have remained good friends. Shortly after he came out to me, he and his boyfriend broke up and over the summer he enjoyed being single

Over the weekend he attended Orlando's gay pride weekend, and had a great time. He and I were talking on the phone last night and he told me that he was hanging out with his "girlfriend" I was a little taken aback when he said that I asked him "Wait a second, aren't you gay? Your girlfriend is ok with that?" and he said "Yeah she doesn't seem to mind" My reply was "But dude. You're gay" He fired back "I don't want to talk about it, I'm bi dude not gay and my girlfriend is ok with it"

Sorry for the use of the word "Dude" we're both in our early 20s, moving on

Now that my gay (or bi) has a girlfriend I feel like there is something wrong with me because I am straight and can't get a date if my life depended on it. Even more confusing to me is that his girlfriend is seemingly ok with his sexual past. Every woman I have ever met won't go anywhere near a bi guy in terms of dating, sex, and relationships

Any thoughts?

PS Does my friend dating a woman refute the claims in the "Straight Men who Have Sex With Men" thread that all men who have sex with men are gay forever and ever until the end of time? Even if it only happens once
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Old 10-07-2012, 11:22 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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It happens. (Kanye shrug)
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Old 10-07-2012, 11:24 PM
 
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The first thing that struck me as funny was the guy picking up a girl at a gay pride gathering.

If he wants to be bi, have at it.
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Old 10-07-2012, 11:28 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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He's bi, not gay. And his girlfriend can accept this. What's so confusing about that?
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Old 10-07-2012, 11:29 PM
 
Location: Central California
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His game is tight. Your game is whack. Only explanation.
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Old 10-07-2012, 11:33 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Since he is gay see if you can get in his GF's panties. Wait, given your post history buy a lottery ticket instead. Your chances are better there.
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Old 10-08-2012, 12:48 AM
 
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He is not gay anymore.
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Old 10-08-2012, 05:25 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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It happens. (Kanye shrug)
Hahahaha Kanye shrug.

Your friend is obviously quite confused and has not a clue about how to go about being gay.
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Old 10-08-2012, 05:31 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Maybe the gf is transgendered? Who knows? Leave it alone.
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Old 10-08-2012, 05:34 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Maybe the gf is transgendered? Who knows? Leave it alone.
Agreed. It's no one's business but his.
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