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Old 10-08-2012, 01:54 PM
 
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Depends what you mean by attractive and quality. What I consider quality and attractive: childless, preferably Catholic and never married, not obese or poor hygiene and wants to marry. I don't care about height, or income or many other things. Anyway I find I have trouble even finding these guys. I either find men wanting just sex, guys with kids, guys with poor hygiene and obese or often all of the above.
What age?
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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where are they?
What do you mean by Quality?
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Different people will have varying opinions on what they consider to be "attractive" and "quality"...although there are specific characteristics of both where most would concur that this characteristic is attractive or that trait is quality.

I think about 75-85% of good-looking, good-quality men leave the market (i.e. taken) by about age 25, with the majority of them partnered up with quality, attractive women that they'll eventually marry if not already done so. The genuinely good guys and good women who are attractive tend to be among the first ones that are removed from the "singles" pool...often permanently. They also usually have quality friends and if possible will maintain a reasonable distance from people of either gender who they suspect are potential trouble.
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:14 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Different people will have varying opinions on what they consider to be "attractive" and "quality"...although there are specific characteristics of both where most would concur that this characteristic is attractive or that trait is quality.

I think about 75-85% of good-looking, good-quality men leave the market (i.e. taken) by about age 25, with the majority of them partnered up with quality, attractive women that they'll eventually marry if not already done so. The genuinely good guys and good women who are attractive tend to be among the first ones that are removed from the "singles" pool...often permanently. They also usually have quality friends and if possible will maintain a reasonable distance from people of either gender who they suspect are potential trouble.
So true... the good ones are gone by the time you hit the mid 20s. If you're good looking and a genuinely good person, you won't stay on the market for very long.
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:20 PM
 
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Welp. I don't count. i'm not attractive!
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Are you ladies seriously having trouble meeting men? Or are you just mocking the guys who post these things? Men are everywhere! Unless you ladies are living in an alternate universe, women get hit on all the time. Post a profile on match, plentyoffish, any of those sites... you won't even have to actually DO any work as far as messaging guys. Just put up a profile. Take a class. Go to a gym. Join a political campaign. Go to a bookstore. Go to a park. Do anything, go anywhere. My goodness, women have it so easy when it comes to meeting men. I don't see how you ladies can complain about that aspect. Don't get me wrong, women have it tough in other areas of life... childbirth, unequal pay for equal work, plenty of others... but as far as meeting people? You ladies have it easy as pie in that aspect. Just go anywhere that there are other human beings and you are bound to get hit on sooner or later. How hard are you really trying? How much effort are you actually making?
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:22 PM
 
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So true... the good ones are gone by the time you hit the mid 20s. If you're good looking and a genuinely good person, you won't stay on the market for very long.

i disagree, a lot of my friends are good looking guys and single and in their mid 20s, but due to the areas which we live in, a lot of the girls are looking for breadwinners. I will say this though, none of us are huge bar/club people, so you wont necessarily find us there. I consider myself a good looking good person, but the last 2 girls i dated, one couldnt get over the fact that i lived 40 miles away, and the other one was just too immature.
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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where are they?
I'm looking too

A nice tall guy, broad shoulders, good job, ...where are you??
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Texas
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where are they?
Only met a couple in college, but I did attend a smaller school. Had class with both. I didn't measure up to one (figuratively speaking) and the other was in a two year relationship at the time. There were plenty to waste time with, but very few "keepers"
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Old 10-08-2012, 02:43 PM
 
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I'm looking too

A nice tall guy, broad shoulders, good job, ...where are you??
what you consider a good job?
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