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Old 10-08-2012, 04:29 PM
 
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What area? I've said bergen county, that's both specific enough to give people an idea, and broad enough to keep my privacy. how about you?

And yeah, then if that's really the case, get the hell out of California.
Do you even really care about being near your family? Do they support you that much? If not, you have a freedom i don't, the freedom to MOVE!
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Central California
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I'm actually in negotiations with a place out in Boston for a job... so I've got a few places I could choose from right now. I'm leaning towards Boston or Seattle at this point and I think I'd like to try out the east coast for a bit.

It's a California thing...nearly everyone does drugs of some sort out here, from white collar down to poor college kids. It's funny though, because where I live is one of the most desirable areas in the entire country...many people would do ANYTHING to live where I live and I can't wait to get out.
What area do you live in? I'm moving to SoCal pretty soon.
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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What area? I've said bergen county, that's both specific enough to give people an idea, and broad enough to keep my privacy. how about you?

And yeah, then if that's really the case, get the hell out of California.
Do you even really care about being near your family? Do they support you that much? If not, you have a freedom i don't, the freedom to MOVE!
San Luis Obispo, the happiest place in the US!

I care a lot about being near my family, they're the most important people in my life... but I am going to have to move and I'm not super happy about it. Excited? Of course.
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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What area do you live in? I'm moving to SoCal pretty soon.
Central Coast, SLO area.

Southern California is a cesspool, you couldn't pay me enough to live down there again.
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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I have a very long list of requirements, lol. And I know that has a lot to do with it. I was just curious as to what others would have to say about this subject, lol

35+? No thanks. lol My upper limit is about 26.
You're looking for me darling.
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:36 PM
 
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I'm actually in negotiations with a place out in Boston for a job... so I've got a few places I could choose from right now. I'm leaning towards Boston or Seattle at this point and I think I'd like to try out the east coast for a bit.

It's a California thing...nearly everyone does drugs of some sort out here, from white collar down to poor college kids. It's funny though, because where I live is one of the most desirable areas in the entire country...many people would do ANYTHING to live where I live and I can't wait to get out.
I agree that California is a desirable place to live, with everyone being fit and active.. In terms of it having many parks and a mountain range so close to an ocean you can surf in and a generally liberal atmosphere it would sound fitting to me, but I'd hate to be surrounded by cigarette smoke...

I've already lost a friend who started doing drugs in California...

I'm not sure if the pros out weigh the cons.

Then there is Appalachia, also a geographically desirable place with plenty of outdoorsy things to do... But the people there are also to be desired.

I'm like you, I'd also be split between New England and Pacific North west.
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:37 PM
 
Location: Between Heaven And Hell.
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Mostly Married or Dead though.
May be more that are gay than you think.
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:40 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I agree that California is a desirable place to live, with everyone being fit and active.. In terms of it having many parks and a mountain range so close to an ocean you can surf in and a generally liberal atmosphere it would sound fitting to me, but I'd hate to be surrounded by cigarette smoke...

I've already lost a friend who started doing drugs in California...

I'm not sure if the pros out weigh the cons.

Then there is Appalachia, also a geographically desirable place with plenty of outdoorsy things to do... But the people there are also to be desired.

I'm like you, I'd also be split between New England and Pacific North west.
You really seem a tad obsessed with people being 'fit and active', it seems to come up in nearly every one of your posts.

Regardless, in SLO county, smoking is banned in public areas. It was also the first city/county in the country to ban indoor smoking in the early 90s. So, cigarette smoke really isn't an issue here at all. You'd probably fit in just fine where I live, nearly everyone is fit and active (i.e. skinny) and we even banned plastic bags from being sold recently. Hooray.
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:43 PM
 
Location: La lune et les Ă©toiles
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I'm actually in negotiations with a place out in Boston for a job... so I've got a few places I could choose from right now. I'm leaning towards Boston or Seattle at this point and I think I'd like to try out the east coast for a bit.

It's a California thing...nearly everyone does drugs of some sort out here, from white collar down to poor college kids. It's funny though, because where I live is one of the most desirable areas in the entire country...many people would do ANYTHING to live where I live and I can't wait to get out.
Only if you associate with trash. Your "observation" is very off....and insulting.
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Old 10-08-2012, 04:44 PM
 
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Move to Portland,
Great advice-if you are a female who wants an active dating life and you are looking for a guy who is either 25 or nearing/over 50. Not so much if you are between those ages. I haven't had a date in over 2 years despite doing all the things lpfan mentions previously in this thread. Most social events, be it Meetup, invite only, taking a rock climbing class or volunteering have about a 7:1 (usually higher) women:men ratio. The men between ages 30-45 are either married, in a relationship or just out of one and don't want to be "tied down" to just one woman when there are so many to choose from. It's a candy store for men and more of a puddle than a pool for women.
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