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I would think that most women would know by the 5th date if there was any hope of this becoming a relationship. I can speak for myself when I say I would never lead a man on. I wouldn't waste his time,, nor mine, going on dates when I feel no connection with him.
Yes, it would be "our" day. I said his because it is usually the man that is pushing for sex.
I can't rep you or I would have put this in a rep comment.
OP has disappeared. I'm thinking it's too intimadating over here.
My take ---
Yes, it's her body and she should do what she feels is right.
But after FIVE dates? I'm outta there if it hasn't been done by then. Life is way too short for this type of game playing.
I'm also taking into consideration the amount of communication it took so far to get to that 5th date. There is usually a lot of communication and that is the way it should be if you are interested in getting to really know someone. OP mentioned they talk everyday. That is plenty of time if one is interested to take this beyond the friend zone.
Myself, I wouldn't waste my time after the 3rd. I would take the hint and move on. In fact I would likely be able to sense this after the first or second date.
This one appears hopeless to me.
Thank goodness my BF, (of 3 years), didn't have that attitude.
Sounds like you're taking a poll. Forgetaboutit. Other people aren't you. Do what comes naturally. Don't force it and don't let perceived social pressures be your green or red lights. Make yourself happy with your decision, whatever it is.
My DH and I waited until a few days before our first date.
If you want to have sex with him, I mean genuinely, and not just because it seems like time, then you should. Your feelings are what you should be going by, not some survey or forum advise.
This does not mean you will marry him, so be sure you use protection.
With all due respect, I wouldn't even wait 3 month to join the Mile High Club, while acting as pilot in command, with a woman I met, let alone just sex in the bedroom.
That being said, I wouldn't expect it on the first or even the 3rd date either.
I don't think sex should be expected on any kind of timeline.
When I dated, however, I would consider it a problem if I didn't sense the desire for sex within a reasonable amount of time - that could be a week or it could be 3 months... but if sex didn't happen sooner or later, I questioned whether the person was attracted to me at all.
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