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Could one of you ladies please put together a hundred pages or so of an instruction manual, explaining to us men, exactly what you would like us to say, in what tone you would like us to say it, for every possible situation that could come up? Maybe you can't get every situation, but try to hit on the 100 or so most common.
I was just informed on another thread that i was wrong for telling a woman she was beautiful. Apparently in the situation, it was wrong. In other situations, women WANT you to tell them they are beautiful. Sometimes they want you to say they are sexy. Sometimes they don't want you to focus on a specific body part. They want you to be sensitive sometimes. But not TOO sensitive. A nice guy, but not a "nice guy".
Anyway, it's just too much for me to try and analyze. I already have a full time job... i can't really handle another one. So if one of you ladies publishes a manual, i'll gladly pay $19.95 to pick it up at my local Barnes and Noble or on Amazon
First, NEVER ask a woman for advice about women.
Sensitive is generally a bad thing (despite what girls tell you). Unless the girl is crazy into you already, never show negative emotions (and even then, it's usually not good).
You can definitely tell girls they're hot/beautiful/sexy, but you have to do it the right way. What's the right way? Well, that's one of those things that I wouldn't be able to explain on an internet forum.
There are tons of books written on this topic. Some of them are written by guys that get girls (not girls themselves). Those are the guys that you should listen to. Read them and try out everything they tell you to. Read as many books as possible and try as many things as possible until you find out what works for you.
Sensitive is generally a bad thing (despite what girls tell you). Unless the girl is crazy into you already, never show negative emotions (and even then, it's usually not good).
You can definitely tell girls they're hot/beautiful/sexy, but you have to do it the right way. What's the right way? Well, that's one of those things that I wouldn't be able to explain on an internet forum.
There are tons of books written on this topic. Some of them are written by guys that get girls (not girls themselves). Those are the guys that you should listen to. Read them and try out everything they tell you to. Read as many books as possible and try as many things as possible until you find out what works for you.
Let me ask you this - does this work as in trying to find a partner or as in trying to get laid every time you go out? And yes - there is a difference.
Let me ask you this - does this work as in trying to find a partner or as in trying to get laid every time you go out? And yes - there is a difference.
Yes, it works for everything. I don't go out trying to get laid all of the time. I date girls too. I really haven't found there to be much of a difference.
Just for argument's sake, what part of my post were you referring to?
Could one of you ladies please put together a hundred pages or so of an instruction manual, explaining to us men, exactly what you would like us to say, in what tone you would like us to say it, for every possible situation that could come up? Maybe you can't get every situation, but try to hit on the 100 or so most common.
I was just informed on another thread that i was wrong for telling a woman she was beautiful. Apparently in the situation, it was wrong. In other situations, women WANT you to tell them they are beautiful. Sometimes they want you to say they are sexy. Sometimes they don't want you to focus on a specific body part. They want you to be sensitive sometimes. But not TOO sensitive. A nice guy, but not a "nice guy".
Anyway, it's just too much for me to try and analyze. I already have a full time job... i can't really handle another one. So if one of you ladies publishes a manual, i'll gladly pay $19.95 to pick it up at my local Barnes and Noble or on Amazon
Heh It's true. No wonder guys are scared to say or do anything.
The only solution is to focus on the ONE you are with.
I wonder if foreign women are different from American women. I have been doing some reading, and there are a number of bloggers suggesting that women in other countries are nicer and more down to earth than American women. I will have to look into this more. American women are just SO gorgeous though. They are so pretty, it is tough to resist. But i just cannot deal with the arrogant and condescending attitudes anymore.
Anyway, this is definitely something i am going to give some more thought into and do some research on.
Yes, it works for everything. I don't go out trying to get laid all of the time. I date girls too. I really haven't found there to be much of a difference.
Just for argument's sake, what part of my post were you referring to?
This question wasn't based on this post alone - all your posts really. You come across as a player and you often talk about women like they are disposable. It's hard for me to picture women falling in love with this kind of a person.
I wonder if foreign women are different from American women. I have been doing some reading, and there are a number of bloggers suggesting that women in other countries are nicer and more down to earth than American women. I will have to look into this more. American women are just SO gorgeous though. They are so pretty, it is tough to resist. But i just cannot deal with the arrogant and condescending attitudes anymore.
Anyway, this is definitely something i am going to give some more thought into and do some research on.
And we're back to square one.
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