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My guess is that the REASON foreign women are so much nicer is because the men in foreign countries treat their women like dirt. So when they met a decent American guy, they are probably happy just to find someone who respects them and treats them like a queen. American women are probably mean because American guys are so nice. We treat our women like gold, so they get away with being very demanding and mean. Just my guess.
Could one of you ladies please put together a hundred pages or so of an instruction manual, explaining to us men, exactly what you would like us to say, in what tone you would like us to say it, for every possible situation that could come up? Maybe you can't get every situation, but try to hit on the 100 or so most common.
I was just informed on another thread that i was wrong for telling a woman she was beautiful. Apparently in the situation, it was wrong. In other situations, women WANT you to tell them they are beautiful. Sometimes they want you to say they are sexy. Sometimes they don't want you to focus on a specific body part. They want you to be sensitive sometimes. But not TOO sensitive. A nice guy, but not a "nice guy".
Anyway, it's just too much for me to try and analyze. I already have a full time job... i can't really handle another one. So if one of you ladies publishes a manual, i'll gladly pay $19.95 to pick it up at my local Barnes and Noble or on Amazon
Duuuude, you don't ask a deer how to hunt it. Ask men who know what they're doing with women for advice. THOSE are the people who are going to help you with real advice, not what people think should work.
I actually did write some stuff a while back along the lines of what you're looking for. If you would like me to send it to you, just say so. Here's a few blogs I think will help you immensely in the meantime:
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