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One thing i will say is, i never understood why feminists supported Bill Clinton so much, since he was such a womanizer. But now i get it. Womanizers really aren't a threat to your movement. Guys who get laid a lot aren't likely to go out and organize any protest marches. It's the angry, lonely, sexually frustrated men who are getting together to form these men's rights movements. If anyone poses a threat to feminism, it's the guys who are NOT getting laid. The guys who ARE getting laid are perfectly happy to kiss women's a$$es... they will support any political platform you ladies want. Now i am seeing why Bill Clinton cheating on his wife wasn't really a big deal in the eyes of many feminists. It's those old white Republican guys not getting any who pose a threat to feminism.
Yeah, it's those angry, bitter men's libbers. Boycott women, that'll show 'em!
Your therapist should like this.
Look, we told you how to approach women, and how not to, but you trashed that advice. So you only have yourself to blame if you keep making the same mistakes.
Yeah, it's those angry, bitter men's libbers. Boycott women, that'll show 'em!
Your therapist should like this.
Look, we told you how to approach women, and how not to, but you trashed that advice. So you only have yourself to blame if you keep making the same mistakes.
The only thing anyone said was to basically be friends with them and get to know them. I've been trying that for years. Women have made it very clear to me that they find me repulsive. It hurts, and why just keep getting hurt over and over again? I am sure there are a number of other lonely, sexually frustrated guys who feel the same way.
I have started talking to several British women, and i am going to encourage other guys having trouble with American women to try and talk to foreign women. i am picking British women first mostly because of the language barrier, but i guess theoretically you could go to a number of places.
Why keep trying to go after the women who make it very clear they are repulsed by us and would rather not have us around? Obviously, a number of guys are doing just fine with American women, so i would recommend they just keep doing what is working for them. But it's time for those of us who have been struggling for years to see if there are some nicer women abroad who will treat us better. I do think American women are the most beautiful, but who wants to deal with all their demands? I sure don't. Frankly, i'll probably be bitter for awhile over the fact that in a country of 250 million people, 125 million women, i couldn't find someone. That's not going to be easy to get over. But still, enough is enough. Time for a change. Like you said, i can't keep repeating the same mistakes over and over.
Anyway, that's probably a more effective strategy for everyone all around. I am going to try and get a blog or website going this week to help other guys in my predicament.
Gee... I'm so sad that I never got the chance to date those guys. They sound like real winners. Yup - we American women sure are feeling the effects of THAT boycott!
You know, one of the challenges on this forum is dealing with people who ask advice. Hey, I'm a straight shooter who has lived a lot of life. I dated, made a smart choice in the woman I married, and have strong relationships with friends, colleagues, family, etc. It wasn't because I look like Pierce Brosnan or something. It's because I've tried to seek wisdom in my approach to relationships.
So if you truly need compassion, I'll give it to you. But if you are on the umpteenth nightmare relationship because you make idiotic choices in your life or in how you treat others, then I'll tell you right off the bat. Because, ultimately, it's far better for you to have mistakes pointed out, than to be cosseted by people who confuse sympathy with helping.
Yet if you give straightforward advice, some people will take it constructively, while others don't want to hear it. What the second group want instead is validation for their boneheaded mistakes and attitudes in life. And they don't like it when you don't give it to them.
I hope more Guys keep going for those foreign women, just gives me greater odds of getting an American Woman
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