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Old 10-13-2012, 11:16 PM
 
Location: Central California
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For the record, i have tried, unsuccessfully, to date and sleep with most of said female friends... i'm sure that question is coming soon.
Why did you fail? How did you go about doing it? Give me an example.

 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:17 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Sure they did.

So are you saying that you actually have female friends? I thought all women were arrogant and mean?

Addressed above. I don't know if they are really my friends, frankly, because i am bitter toward them as well, as i have tried unsuccessfully to take it to another level with many of them. I was probably mistaken to call them friends. I should say "females that i know and talk to."

Come to think of it, yes they are arrogant and mean, a lot of them.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Cap'n Jack gone out of character, and has sided with women on Ipfan's threads today, though. (Mark this day on your calendar.) And he just rep-messaged me that he was, indeed, being sarcastic.
Damage control.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:21 PM
 
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OP, your fixation on "women's power" regarding their sexuality is disturbing. That is exactly the kind of twisted thinking that shows up in serial rapist/killer letters to newspapers. My advice to you is to talk to a mental health professional, because the path you're going down is unhealthy, unstable, and dangerous.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:21 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Damage control.
Why would I need damage control?
 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:21 PM
 
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Originally Posted by lpfan921 View Post
Addressed above. I don't know if they are really my friends, frankly, because i am bitter toward them as well, as i have tried unsuccessfully to take it to another level with many of them. I was probably mistaken to call them friends. I should say "females that i know and talk to."

Come to think of it, yes they are arrogant and mean, a lot of them.
Perhaps again it's suited to take action on the prostitutes and developing a healthy coping mechanism for rejection.

If you prefer to react with your misogynistic bitter resentment then perhaps try improving your attractiveness, wealth, status, or personality to bypass your possibly commonplace male mindset.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:22 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Addressed above. I don't know if they are really my friends, frankly, because i am bitter toward them as well, as i have tried unsuccessfully to take it to another level with many of them. I was probably mistaken to call them friends. I should say "females that i know and talk to."

Come to think of it, yes they are arrogant and mean, a lot of them.
It sounds like they are really your friends but that you aren't really their friends. They are friends with you even though they don't want to sleep with you while you seem to only hang out with them in order to sleep with them. Do you think they are arrogant and mean simply because they won't sleep with you?

As for advice - we already gave you advice on your other thread - then you got mad at us, told us we were arrogant and mean, and basically threw a temper tantrum.

My advice again - don't use a "line." Don't compliment a woman right away - especially not with a line that sounds like you use on everyone until someone actually bites. Just talk to women like you would talk to anyone else. Don't be fake or phony - just be comfortable and sincere. A woman doesn't need to have her feet kissed in order to be interested in someone. Make a connection.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:22 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Originally Posted by lpfan921 View Post
Addressed above. I don't know if they are really my friends, frankly, because i am bitter toward them as well, as i have tried unsuccessfully to take it to another level with many of them. I was probably mistaken to call them friends. I should say "females that i know and talk to."

Come to think of it, yes they are arrogant and mean, a lot of them.
From what I can gather, your definition of "arrogant and mean" really translates to "won't **** me".

You are blaming them for your own failings.

They can't help it if you're unattractive.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:24 PM
 
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From what I can gather, your definition of "arrogant and mean" really translates to "won't **** me".

You are blaming them for your own failings.

They can't help it if you're unattractive.
You gathered correctly as he admitted to that in his other thread.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 11:31 PM
 
Location: Central California
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It sounds like they are really your friends but that you aren't really their friends. They are friends with you even though they don't want to sleep with you while you seem to only hang out with them in order to sleep with them. Do you think they are arrogant and mean simply because they won't sleep with you?

As for advice - we already gave you advice on your other thread - then you got mad at us, told us we were arrogant and mean, and basically threw a temper tantrum.

My advice again - don't use a "line." Don't compliment a woman right away - especially not with a line that sounds like you use on everyone until someone actually bites. Just talk to women like you would talk to anyone else. Don't be fake or phony - just be comfortable and sincere. A woman doesn't need to have her feet kissed in order to be interested in someone. Make a connection.
I agree with the bolded.

Also, OP, do you make friends with girls just to sleep with them?

I find that it works to just genuinely want to be friends with them. If I hit on a girl and she's not into it, I make every attempt to just stay friends (well, only if I genuinely want to get to know her). I don't think about getting with her anymore, but just focus on being good friends. Eventually (and this has happened almost every time...but the timeframe tends to be variable), the girl decides she likes me and starts chasing me.

One of the keys to getting a girl is putting in work. You have to put time into them (some more than others). Being friends is the best way to do that (because it shows that you're not needy and willing to accept rejection, if necessary....and it's fun because you're genuinely getting to know the girl and gaining her respect).
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