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Hahaha yup! You can't win. Give it up too soon you are a ho. Not soon enough and you get dumped.
Does this means we should have one night stands then look up those men a year or two later to see if they want girlfriends? Or would that just be booty call 2.0?
Maybe we should just hop on the arranged marriage bandwagon. At least all parties are in it for the same thing.
Maybe start shopping for mail order husbands online??
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Originally Posted by DrEarth
For me, it doesn't matter how soon a woman sleeps with me. If I like her, and we sleep together after two dates, then I'll continue to see her if we click. However, if it's pushing date 6 and no action, then that's a different story.
If I don't like her after date one or two, I would still sleep with her, but not put any more effort (or very little) into pursuing her.
I have a new-ish rule after getting burned a couple times by men who feigned interest in me only to sleep with me a few times and leave. No sex until there's some sort of exclusivity. Period. Sex means a lot to me, though I know it means diddly squat to others, and I've made some stupid mistakes regarding it in the past which has effected me negatively emotionally. This may be 3 dates, it may be 10.
Hahaha yup! You can't win. Give it up too soon you are a ho. Not soon enough and you get dumped.
Does this means we should have one night stands then look up those men a year or two later to see if they want girlfriends? Or would that just be booty call 2.0?
Maybe we should just hop on the arranged marriage bandwagon. At least all parties are in it for the same thing.
If a guy dumps you because you did not have sex with him then he obviously is NOT THE RIGHT ONE for you.
If a guy dumps you because you did not have sex with him then he obviously is NOT THE RIGHT ONE for you.
I absolutely agree.
However, there are men on this forum in particular that think if a woman doesn't have sex with them by the second or third date that they're not interested.
Apparently, sex is the only way to show you're interested in another person.
Maybe start shopping for mail order husbands online??
I have a new-ish rule after getting burned a couple times by men who feigned interest in me only to sleep with me a few times and leave. No sex until there's some sort of exclusivity. Period. Sex means a lot to me, though I know it means diddly squat to others, and I've made some stupid mistakes regarding it in the past which has effected me negatively emotionally. This may be 3 dates, it may be 10.
This is my rule....but some not monogamy minded men want to cut to the chase with a fake promise of monogamy.
Agreed, which is why something needs to happen that shows he's 'committed' in some way. Either meeting a roommate or being invited to go out with a few of his friends. Something that shows he's not a pump and dumper.
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