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Old 10-16-2012, 10:26 PM
 
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...on how well she kept herself and how close he bonded with her (meaning "What are they talking about? Nope, that pair of jeans doesn't make you look fat, Honey").
And what age they met at.

There is no avoidance of that.
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Old 10-17-2012, 05:48 AM
 
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Most women would look at random guys calling them "beautiful" as weird. And they have a point
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Old 10-17-2012, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Most women would look at random guys calling them "beautiful" as weird. And they have a point
^^^This, and also that it's not anyone's job to build up someone else's self-esteem. Self-esteem comes from you, internally, not externally from other people.
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Old 10-17-2012, 12:17 PM
 
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Do men have a problem telling beautiful girls they don't know that they are beautiful? Why do they have a fear of this?
Not that many young men can afford a lawsuit... or a sexual harassment charge.
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Old 10-17-2012, 12:25 PM
 
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Most women would look at random guys calling them "beautiful" as weird. And they have a point
It's not weird at all, it's natural and nice.
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Old 10-17-2012, 12:25 PM
 
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Not that many young men can afford a lawsuit... or a sexual harassment charge.
Seems many guys do tell gals they're beautiful and much more (rape, sexual assault, groping, sexual harassment) regardless of if they can afford a lawsuit or a sexual harassment charge.

Seems more like lack of confidence, insecurity, or fear of rejection is more the case than lack of funds to afford a lawsuit/sexual harassment charge.
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Old 10-17-2012, 12:28 PM
 
Location: Infernuan
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It's not weird at all, it's natural and nice.
Yeah, in the movies.

Let us remind ourselves that we are talking about REAL LIFE here, not some bull**** 'fantasy'.
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Old 10-17-2012, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Well I guess I'm ugly cause I like it.

Yea if your a model I would still say that you are handsome.
I hate hate hate when you say stuff like this! You are FAR from ugly Ms. Raena! Now stop it!!
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Old 10-17-2012, 12:42 PM
 
Location: USA
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This thread gives you good insight as why men have a hard time giving compliments to women:

1) About 1/2 the women here said the man would appear disingenuous by coming up to her and saying she is beautiful.

2) The other half is flattered and encourage the comment.

Whats a man to do
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Old 10-17-2012, 12:43 PM
 
Location: USA
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I hate hate hate when you say stuff like this! You are FAR from ugly Ms. Raena! Now stop it!!
She was being sarcastic.
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