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I agree, thats why if she's not attractive she's going to have to be proactive.
And if you're proactive you get shoved in the 'friend zone' or they think you're easy. If she's not attractive and there are attractive women around who even pretend to be interested in their hobby she will be ignored.
I have tried everything too but in Silicon Bay Area is impossible to meet someone. Now I only leave my house to work and spend all my time with my dog, friends or family instead of wanting to be with someone. However I have a huge empty hole in my heart. I understand. Especially where I live all the white men prefer to date Asian women so it is a no win situation for me since I'm white. Also, unfortunately I only work with women since I'm a teacher. That makes meeting someone hard as well.
This seems hard to believe. I'm sure they're some white men who date white women as well. The teacher environment is probably low on dating opportunities. Do you take grad courses in the evening to advance your credential? Teachers receive a lot of holiday time; what about taking some trips?
This may be of interest here. It's a map of singles in america and how certain cities have more men than women and vice versa.. It's a bit dated though.
How is that a myth? What attractive women do you know that can't find a man?
It's funny how they keep deluding themselves into thinking the problem must be something else. I love the excuses women make. The brutal truth is that if these women were even anywhere near as attractive as they think they are, they would have endless offers from men to take them out. If you can't find a man, it's because you're just ugly and undesirable.
It's funny how they keep deluding themselves into thinking the problem must be something else. I love the excuses women make. The brutal truth is that if these women were even anywhere near as attractive as they think they are, they would have endless offers from men to take them out. If you can't find a man, it's because you're just ugly and undesirable.
I don't think that it's just bc they're ugly and undesirable. Most of them are average to below average and they're rejecting/not interested in men that are average/below average just like they are. These women are too busy going after the men that are above average and ignoring what is right in front of them. So when those above average men sleep with those average or below average women and then discard them or when those men see them as nothing more than a cool friend, they're left wondering "where are all of the good men". The good men are around. Stop holding out for that man that is perfect in every way bc no one is perfect.
It's funny how they keep deluding themselves into thinking the problem must be something else. I love the excuses women make. The brutal truth is that if these women were even anywhere near as attractive as they think they are, they would have endless offers from men to take them out. If you can't find a man, it's because you're just ugly and undesirable.
I don't agree with most of this because even "ugly" and "undesirable"(by most standards) still form relationships, get married, have kids etc. But some of it come down to alot of women overrating themselves(as do alot of men) and going after guys who are way above their league
This may be of interest here. It's a map of singles in america and how certain cities have more men than women and vice versa.. It's a bit dated though.
Wow Texas and California looks like a sausage feast.
It's funny how they keep deluding themselves into thinking the problem must be something else. I love the excuses women make. The brutal truth is that if these women were even anywhere near as attractive as they think they are, they would have endless offers from men to take them out. If you can't find a man, it's because you're just ugly and undesirable.
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I don't think that it's just bc they're ugly and undesirable. Most of them are average to below average and they're rejecting/not interested in men that are average/below average just like they are. These women are too busy going after the men that are above average and ignoring what is right in front of them. So when those above average men sleep with those average or below average women and then discard them or when those men see them as nothing more than a cool friend, they're left wondering "where are all of the good men". The good men are around. Stop holding out for that man that is perfect in every way bc no one is perfect.
Nice single men are everywhere. Literally everywhere. Now whether or not you are compatible with them, they compatible with you, is another story. Also there plenty of single attractive women out there. Some by choice, but many because they just can't find what they are looking for. Just because they have a bunch of guys asking for their number is nothing for them to tap themselves on the shoulder about.
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