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One point being overlooked is there is more to a relationship or marriage than financial support. Emotional support is huge. Of course there are a lot of cases these days where women make more money then men... but even in cases where the man is the primary breadwinner, there are still other aspects. Love, care, friendship, acceptance, good times together. Who doesn't want your best friend in the world laying next to you when you go to sleep at night?
I would imagine all of these positive aspects of a relationship go out the window when somebody cheats. Then again, if your relationship is not good to begin with and if it does not have these positive aspects, i can certainly see why someone would be tempted to cheat. Probably more right to break up at that point rather than cheat.
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Originally Posted by lpfan921
I cannot believe i actually just spent a portion of my life thinking of, and writing, a serious response to the question of why it is wrong to cheat. I'm never going to get that 7 minutes back, am i?
No, but they were valuable in that you demonstrated that you're capable of at least talking about relationships in terms of love--which is much better than those bizarre "sex rich women taunting me" posts you write.
It's fine for you to speak for yourself, but I don't understand why you would speak for all men with your assertions of "No man". Sorry, but you are not the human male rep on planet Earth.
I can't understand why men are criticized for having something on the side. It's men who keep a roof over your head, bring home the bread every night and pay the bills, so that man has the right to see multiple women at the same time. Men need variety. We get bored of the same thing day in day out.
If it's the man who brings everything to the table, you really don't have any choice but to accept it because you live off his income and he supports you. You have to either like it or lump it.
Western society seems to have programmed people to believe that cheating is somehow wrong. It's not. It's natural for a man to have more than one sexual partner. Being with one woman for the rest of your life is against nature.
If you want variety, stay single and play the field, im not sure im understanding your question.
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